Needinghelp82

I'm pregnant.

Called my GP for some blood results from yesterday. That is what they told me.

Lost

biminiblue

((hug))

PurpleKnight

You've had quite the week Needinghelp82!! . . . that calls for a hug!!

Jupiters

whoa.
how are you??? that must have been quite the unexpected news!

Needinghelp82

This is a nightmare. I don't want another child and this is not the right time even if I did. What do I do?!

Jupiters

oh man *hugs*

Needinghelp82

I'm lost I have no idea what to do. This is not happening!

Needinghelp82

I've known for a few hours and this still isn't real. I should not be dealing with this now. There's too much going on already

ultradad

Congrats! I personally think children are such a blessing! And, timing is never right for having a baby ; ) Take it from me, I have 6 kids...it'll all workout and be okay, just breath!

Needinghelp82

I just never wanted another. I'm only just in to recovery, dealing with a domestic incident and now this. It seems too much. I've been thinking it over for hours and I just can't imagine having another

LeaRachel

what about giving it up for adoption, there are plenty who want kids and can't have them?

LDT

I agree needinghelp...BREATHE.... Who can you talk to face to face about this? Your partner, your doctor, your clergy? I'm sure you're in shock. Let that news settle a bit. Try to stay calm. Feel free to PM any of us if you need to.. We're here for you.

Jupiters

busy guy! jeepers.


needinghelp - it's still too fresh to process on top of everything else you have going on. Just breathe.
It's overwhelming right now b/c it was probably the LAST thing you expected. Give it some time to absorb.

Needinghelp82

Thank you. I'm not sure at the moment who I can speak to but will look into it tomorrow. Hubby knows, he is ok about it. This was just unexpected by the most amount! They asked me if I could be pregnant when they took my blood and I said unlikely. Apparently I was wrong.

firstymer

You have a lot of people here at SR that are thinking good thoughts for you, Needinghelp82. Take a day or so to let the news sink in and you can look at your options then. Until then, keep your sobriety your number one priority and try to be good to yourself.

Lenina

((((((needing help)))))). Just sending you hugs!

Love from Lenina

Nuudawn

Oh my...oh my...oh heaven's oh my...
I know what my first instinct was...but it is not my second.
I too think you should discuss this with someone you trust...physician, counsellor or clergy if you have one...explaining all aspects of your situation.
In the end, trust what is in your heart.

anewpage

Oh man, Vanessa, what a surprise. You have a lot to deal with right now. I'm here if you ever need to talk. ((hugs))

Anna

I have removed a couple of posts that are inappropriate. This is a serious situation and the O/P is struggling.

hokey

Wow when it rains it just pours! Sending (((hugs))) to you. Not much to say that hasn't been said ... wait a few days til the dust settles a bit. But you've shown what you're made of needinghelp ... hang in there and know that you have our support.