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Old 06-08-2014, 08:43 AM
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It's been a while since I've been on here, over a year and that year has been spent drinking. I relapsed after giving up for a few weeks and thought I could control my drinking but it has got gradually worse, day by day, week by week.

My wife and Mum have both expressed concern about the amount I drink, and I know they are correct so now it is time to give this a really good go.

I am an alcoholic and want to spend the rest of my life sober so this is day 1, the first day of the rest of my life.
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Old 06-08-2014, 08:49 AM
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Welcome Back, Only! Glad you are here!
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Old 06-08-2014, 09:13 AM
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Old 06-08-2014, 09:16 AM
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Welcome back, Onlythelonely

If you're anything like me, you just won't be able to moderate, no matter how hard or how often you try. But I've found that giving up completely is actually easier and far more satisfying in the long run
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Old 06-08-2014, 09:29 AM
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You, I and many others have done the same. My last two tries ended the same way. And it does indeed always lead to the same place. Welcome back Only. Glad you are here.
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Old 06-08-2014, 09:37 AM
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Welcome back...as I'm sure you know, you are among those who understand. Do you think a trip to the doc is necessary? Stay close. Pay attention to what's going on in your body. Detox is more difficult (and possibly life threatening) for some than others...
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Old 06-08-2014, 09:37 AM
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Welcome back! One year can go by fast when we fall off the wagon.

Glad you are making a step towards sobriety ;-)
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Old 06-08-2014, 09:39 AM
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I tried that too! The good news is we both came back. I'm on day 22 and ready to start enjoying my life. Good luck
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Old 06-08-2014, 09:52 AM
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Moderation for me was total hell. Total sobriety is the way to go.
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Old 06-08-2014, 10:08 AM
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Hi Only! We're so glad you're back.

Yes, I did it too. Was determined to control my drinking so I wouldn't have to give it up all together. But I wonder why - since it was destroying me? I always longed for the early days when it was still fun, but they were never coming back. In the end, it was a relief to be rid of it. I was never in control of my fate once it was in my system.

You can do this Only - we are with you.
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Old 06-08-2014, 10:13 AM
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Thanks for the responses and taking the time to reply, I sincerely appreciate the support and kind words. Knowing I am not alone with this disease is of great strength and it's good to be back reading the posts on this forum.
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