Kitkat331

Without thinking, I put myself in a situation tonight I probably should have avoided. I got invited to dinner with a bunch of people, most of whom I don't know--my daughter and I were about to eat leftovers but dinner out sounded yummier so we said yes. Honestly, I wasn't thinking at ALL. I HATE awkward socializing with people I've just met and the dinner was at a brewpub, so of course all the adults were drinking. It would have been the classic situation for me to drink just to feel less uneasy.

But, happy to say I didn't drink. And, while the socializing was indeed awkward, by the end of dinner I was actually feeling more relaxed and pretty good--while if I'd had the socially acceptable 1-2 drinks, I would have been feeling eager to have more after leaving.

Instead, came home and enjoyed my night and didn't feel ashamed about my choice (though I'll think twice about future invites and whether it's actually something I want to do.).

Dee74

I'm glad you got out unscathed with lessons learned KitKat

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Mags1

Hi Kitkat, well done on your alcohol free evening out.

This isn't meant to sound Bolshy but I had a feeling of power, being in control of my own being when out with a group for a meal and most were drinking except myself and a few designated driving.

Like you said, I too would have wanted to go home and drink some more.

It's so exhilarating not to pick up that drink and be in control of your life.

WanderingBear

You did good. You are strong enough to not drink. I've been through many of those nights. They can be trying.

Mentium

You passed! 10 out of 10!

SuperMario

Well done! Never been in this situation before (would never consider not drinking) and so am hoping I can get to this stage too. A big step and a big thumbs up ��

Treerat66

Well done, you should be so proud of yourself.

christimc

Thats awesome 👍

ElleDee

Wow! You did really great! I hope you are proud of yourself.

Verte

Woop, woop! Nice job Kitkat

Good story.

ChickChick

Congrats on resisting!!