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Old 05-13-2014, 04:46 AM
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Well he did ask if I would like to go to a new bar in town and that's why I said that. Anyway he didn't seem too bothered.

I asked my therapist about it today, and he seemed to think a casual cup of coffee is a good idea...he is always encouraging me to be more sociable.

I just re-read this old thread and I thought the "no dating" thing was an AA piece of advice, but it turns out it's actually not.

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-recovery.html

Anyway, thanks everyone x
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Old 05-13-2014, 04:55 AM
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got it - thanks
just remember who you are, good luck
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Old 05-13-2014, 05:39 AM
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Just don't rush into a relationship. Remember to take it SLOW, with your feelings too.
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Old 05-13-2014, 05:48 AM
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Originally Posted by yeahgr8 View Post
I'm amazed at how many people are telling you to go for it without knowing you personally. It's pretty irresponsible!
Normally I would agree, but It's just coffee, they're not moving in together. And Tetra's previous posts indicate a more active social life would be beneficial.
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Old 05-14-2014, 05:29 PM
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Here is an article from SR.

Relationships in Early Recovery
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Old 05-14-2014, 06:17 PM
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Go! Just to build a new friendship at the least! A cup of coffee is a nice way to chat and get to know someone!
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