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Old 04-09-2014, 05:57 PM
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Old 04-09-2014, 07:27 PM
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You have inspired me with your advice to others.
See this 2muchpain? Now read it. Now read it again. And read it again and again.

And then go back to those others posts you made with the advice and read them again and again. Start taking care of you. You know that we are all behind you.



You can do this.
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Old 04-09-2014, 07:48 PM
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When I've been in the place you appear to be right now, I knew the pain would subside once I stopped drinking and using. Even one day of sobriety made a big difference. If you can stop today, do it. And know that tomorrow will be a new and hopefully better day.
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Old 04-09-2014, 07:52 PM
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Go to an AA meeting, you can get a hug off a real person if you want as well as recover from alcoholism whilst you are there:-)
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Old 04-09-2014, 08:13 PM
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Old 04-09-2014, 09:16 PM
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Go to an AA meeting, you can get a hug off a real person if you want as well as recover from alcoholism whilst you are there:-)
I have been to many meetings and a hug is everything is nothing different. a hug at those meetings is rare
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Old 04-09-2014, 09:58 PM
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Sometimes a hug during a difficult time can make all the difference in the world. I am not a touchy-feely person but on that rare occasion, I too need a hug.

Cyberhug is all I got. Thoughts and prayers for you, take care of yourself 2muchpain.
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Old 04-09-2014, 10:21 PM
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Hoping you feel better soon, and sending you a HUGE HUG! ♥

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Old 04-09-2014, 11:00 PM
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Hi 2much
This is absolutely wierd. Going thru my phone trying to clear up space from havin 2 many photos(know it needs syncing but that's whole nother story) but anyway got done finally tonite. However rite b4 gettin on here saw 3 pics of my youngest!! @1st said "no I'm not gonna cry" but in less than a min was in tears just as I am rite now as I write this!!! He's in ga & I miss him but can only have supervised visits per judge's order which I'm fine w/ coz never want to be in ex's prescence alone!! Anyway, you're not alone; I'm gonna try & go to bed & hopefully catch some zzz(ughh damn it)
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Old 04-09-2014, 11:08 PM
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****{big hug}}} please don' t give up on yourself.
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Old 04-09-2014, 11:10 PM
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I have been to many meetings and a hug is everything is nothing different. a hug at those meetings is rare
start going to NA then. Them NA folks are always hugging..serious.
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Old 04-10-2014, 12:07 AM
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Here's a hug and here's a wagon jump on.
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Old 04-10-2014, 12:10 AM
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I'm assuming you may have had a drink? When I've slipped, it's made me feel useless and worthless...that alcohol just makes us feel worse - almost relishes our pain because it makes us want it more.

If you are drinking. Please stop. Just stop. That in itself will help.
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Old 04-10-2014, 12:22 AM
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I have been to many meetings and a hug is everything is nothing different. a hug at those meetings is rare
Ok then here is a virtual hug from me...now go to a meeting;-)
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Old 04-10-2014, 12:48 AM
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Cyber hugs from SR have kept me afloat many a time. I've also had many in AA meetings.

I hope you come back and share what's going on for you...look how many people have responded. That's a lot of love and concern heading your way.

Don't give up x
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Old 04-10-2014, 06:36 AM
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Now 2Much, in addition to all of our hugs, hug yourself! That's the most important hug you will get!
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Old 04-10-2014, 06:41 AM
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How are you feeling today, 2muchpain?
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Old 04-10-2014, 02:04 PM
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Old 04-10-2014, 10:07 PM
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