Need some support- Breaking up with my boyfriend
Hope you're doing good. Great idea to reorganize living space. What about painting walls a different colour? Just an idea. I've totally transformed places within a couple days doing that. Anyway, have a nice day.
It feels good and I'm finally active DOING things again instead of just wanting to dwell on my problems. I'm excited about redecorating my house a bit and being able to keep it the way I like. It was so depressing when I'd clean something and it would be a mess again in a week due to my boyfriend. I feel comfortable again, like it's MY space.
So awesome to hear that re-decorating is keeping you busy!!! I don't live alone, but am lucky enough to have a spare room just for me which I use as a craft room and workroom for my wedding styling business. I've been wanting to re-paint it but have been lazy....I just may bust out the paint this weekend and finally do it!!!!
Great minds and all. Reinventing a place with a lick of paint is so effective. How does it look? White or colour?
And man, sometimes I wish I did live alone again. My bf is not exactly of the tidy variety. I gave him the only spare room for his man cave so that he can keep all his junk in there and I don't have to enter it. It's scary in there. So many wonderful things about living alone, I did that for 7 years, having "me" space was wonderful. I was so sad when I had to give up my place but after years of dating it seemed sensible to save on rent. So enjoy it while you can because sooner or later you'll be living with someone else again and missing this time.
And man, sometimes I wish I did live alone again. My bf is not exactly of the tidy variety. I gave him the only spare room for his man cave so that he can keep all his junk in there and I don't have to enter it. It's scary in there. So many wonderful things about living alone, I did that for 7 years, having "me" space was wonderful. I was so sad when I had to give up my place but after years of dating it seemed sensible to save on rent. So enjoy it while you can because sooner or later you'll be living with someone else again and missing this time.
It's white. But since it used to be color, it's a nice change.
I don't know that I ever want to give up living alone again. I just really enjoy time alone- it helps me to unwind and recharge. I think that was one of my big problems about living with boyfriend was just that I didn't get that.
I'm feeling so much better now. This morning I woke up and thought about the things I wanted to get done and instead of lying there until I fell asleep again, I got out of bed excited to start the day. It's been a long time since I felt that way.
I don't know that I ever want to give up living alone again. I just really enjoy time alone- it helps me to unwind and recharge. I think that was one of my big problems about living with boyfriend was just that I didn't get that.
I'm feeling so much better now. This morning I woke up and thought about the things I wanted to get done and instead of lying there until I fell asleep again, I got out of bed excited to start the day. It's been a long time since I felt that way.
How's it going DG? Has the weather got better there too? It's so nice here and I've been gardening in the sun (sorry to rub it in, I know you travel too much to garden). Anyway, just popping in to say hi and I hope your place is looking great.
DG what a great post . You are gaining strength already and your past that has been dragging you down for so long , has finally given you back enthusiasm .
You deserve this and everything sobriety has in store for you lovely
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You deserve this and everything sobriety has in store for you lovely
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Thanks bunny & snoozy.
Bunny, the weather here is gorgeous, although a tad windy here this time of year for my tastes. It's probably nicer now than it will be this summer as then it will be too hot.
I'm doing well. I've been really busy fixing up the house how I want it to be. It's really looking good!
This week I plan to buckle down and get some work done- I more or less took off last week to do house stuff, which felt good, but now it's time to get back at it.
I'm feeling really good about things. I expected to be depressed after bf moved out, but I think I spent so long worrying and being depressed about things before talking to him that I am just feeling done with that.
Bunny, the weather here is gorgeous, although a tad windy here this time of year for my tastes. It's probably nicer now than it will be this summer as then it will be too hot.
I'm doing well. I've been really busy fixing up the house how I want it to be. It's really looking good!
This week I plan to buckle down and get some work done- I more or less took off last week to do house stuff, which felt good, but now it's time to get back at it.
I'm feeling really good about things. I expected to be depressed after bf moved out, but I think I spent so long worrying and being depressed about things before talking to him that I am just feeling done with that.
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