dansanaddict

So I just needed to share what a wonderfull day I didnt manage to have today
So yeah I went to visit my two lil sons today ( me and my wife r seperated)
anywayz as soon as I arive I noticed somthing was wrong my X has lost 45lbs in well 2 mos and it aint no diet!! as soon as I get there she splits with her friends wich was cool with me but I asked her to be back by
5:00 pm because I had a class I had to attend .
Man I am soo angry right now!!
anyways she shows up at 7:30 tweeken!! I mean spun! Icouldnt even understand what she was saying well I sure as hell wasnt leaving my sons with her like that so I called her mom to come over and well I told her mom what was up. By the time her mom gets there its all bad shes pissed at me
shes callin me names yellin that she wants a divorce .
Im sure that its the drugs , but I can hardly belive it!!
it was her sugistion that I go to a program and get some help!
I dont know ? ? ? it just hurts to know that my sons are with her and I am not in the position to help
I know that I can only take care of my self first before I can help anybody
else
funny thing is I suggested that she get help Ha she laughed and said NO you needed help I just need some freedome Huh?
anywayz thanks for lettin me vent
"STILL"
"" its not as bad as my best day using "

:dead1:


ONE DAY AT A TIME
ONE HOUR AT A TIME

namommy

Dan,

That sux. I know how you feel, my ex-husband still uses and pulls crap like that sometimes. Just hang tough and don't let it throw you off your square. Soon enough you will be in a position to help your boys.

Love ya

Laurie D

Brookie

That's rotten Dan. So glad you were there to watch out for the kids when came back.

ted

(((((DAN)))))SORRY TO HEAR.I USED TO USE THAT AVITAR THAT YOU USE,
SOMEONE TOLD ME IT REMINDED THEM OF A WARRIOR,A FIGHTER....
YOU ARE JUST THAT MY FRIEND.....
TAKE CARE OF YOU ABOVE ALL ELSE...GODSPEED FRIEND.......ted

Chy

Continue to work on you! Gosh, the kids, what to say? She's lucky no one has called CPS yet. If she doesn't get help or stop, it's only a matter of time. Prayers to you all!

KelKel

Hi Dan


This is a very good idea...

"I know you are just wanting to vent Dan, but I am going to give you some very practical advice. You need to start keeping very detailed notes of the times you find your wife high. You may need them if and when it comes time for a child custody battle. It seems harsh but you want as many instances that support your side as you can find. -uglyoldpoorman"


And like you said, keep taking care of yourself and your addiction.

dansanaddict

Whew!
First let me say thanks for the support!!!!! I realy needed to have some support.
and yes uglyoldpoorman & kelkel you can BET!I will be keeping a detailed log of the times I picked up the kids & she was high or had a party going on ect....
I know that right now today I am not in a situation whare I could handle having custody of both my sons BUT! I am sure that if the need arrises I could figure a way to do just that!!!
Its just so hard to stop worrying all day and wondering if everything is okay with them
I have been spending alot of time on my knees today I am sure someones listening up there! its just being patient and waiting on him while doing
what I should or can on my end that i am having trouble with. you know??
anyways please keep me and my family in your prayers (I Know you will )
and thanks for the support now I need to go get some tissue to whipe away theese tears
Thanks Guys
I am glad I am not alone no matter whair I am

I WILL BE OK CAUSE
THIS TOO SHALL PASS

Athena724

You are in my thoughts and prayers, Dan! Keep us posted...everything will eventually work out as God plans.