understanding anxiety & stress
understanding anxiety & stress
This is my 2nd attempt to quit drinking. I'm 35 year old male who has been an alcoholic for 15 years. I'm sober for 1 month now and I'm dealing with anxiety right now. The good news is I expect this anxiety and I know it is part of the process. The bad news is it is driving me nuts! So used to drinking stress away. just have to retrain my brain to cope in positive manner.
Yup. I also found that right about the time I figured out how to cope with the anxiety, most of it went away. somewhere in the 75-80 day range for me. Your mileage may vary.
Alcohol induces anxiety, then the addiction convinces you it's the cure. The insipid cycle.
Alcohol induces anxiety, then the addiction convinces you it's the cure. The insipid cycle.
For me, exercise and meditation (mindfulness) are the primary tools I use to keep anxiety in check. That being said, it took several months before the mediation started to help. For those months it seemed like a lot of effort for little payback. Finally the light went on and I realized how meditation helps. It works for me ... it might be worth considering.
I think anxiety is common for most of us...for a little while, anyway.
Exercise is one of the best ways to try and combat it.
Like I said, it should get better.
If you feel it's not getting better in a week or two, or if it's concerning you at all, a visit to your local Dr may help
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Exercise is one of the best ways to try and combat it.
Like I said, it should get better.
If you feel it's not getting better in a week or two, or if it's concerning you at all, a visit to your local Dr may help
D
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I do the exercise, yoga, clean diet routine to maintain and fend off cravings. I did talk with my MD about the anxiety in the early stages of recovery. She helped me develop a plan and provided some tools to help. Really helped/helps me with the racing thoughts and general anxiety and allows me to focus on filling in the gap leaving alcohol used to fill. It does get better.
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Anxiety is the absolute worst part in my opinion. I could deal with the night sweats and insomnia...I'd almost rather that than having anxiety randomly creep up and not knowing what to do with it. You can only work out for so many hours in the day...if I could work out forever to keep the anxiety at bay, I would!!! However, not physically possible haha. I'd also probably stand in the shower forever, but of course, hot water heaters don't pump out infinite amounts of hot water lol
I just hit a year and the anxiety is still my biggest trigger and seems like my best excuse for a drink. It does get better but I don't know how long it takes to go away completely. Hang in there though we are all rooting for ya!
I agree it does definitely get better. In the early days it almost led me back to drinking - even though I knew that would made it worse. At a few months sober it calmed down a lot. Charliee I'm sorry it's still causing you trouble.
For me the anxiety is the worst part of quitting. For about 2 1/2 weeks it was horrible, then it started to get better. Up until yesterday afternoon, I was thinking that the anxiety was behind me, then it started creeping in there again and is quite troublesome today. I'm going to go to bed soon with my Kindle, cup of tea and snacks, hoping tomorrow is a better day. At least I know now that there will be anxiety free days. Oh - I'm on Day 28.
When quit in the past, I dealt with anxiety by telling others I was anxious and wanted a drink. This led to conversation, which would calm me down. Still good to feel anxious or stress than nothing at all
I find that a bucket of ice cream helps me out but then again, my waist line tells me that I have been too stressed recently.
I need to get back to the gym soon! It was a big help for me, made me feel healthier and improved my self-esteem too.
I need to get back to the gym soon! It was a big help for me, made me feel healthier and improved my self-esteem too.
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