SevenNuts

That's it. I'm done. My life is a total wreck, and a much better life awaits. I challenge myself to not be a fraidy cat, and be part of this community, posting often, engaging with life rather than running from it.



Yes, this is me giving myself a hand.

Cheers!

Hevyn

Welcome SevenNuts! You're going to love being here with us. This is a wonderful community for encouragement.

You have a great attitude and sound determined. As you said, a new life is waiting.

SevenNuts

I'm not quite sure how I screwed up in the heading so bad. Publicly. That's it.

Dee74

Welcome SevenNuts

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Goldcoastgirl

Welcome Seven Nuts, you should give yourself a cheer - a good step in the right direction joining us here at SR! I'll give you a cheer back!

Hope4Life

The hardest part is admitting that you have a problem and you are past that now. Congratulations on taking the first step towards a MUCH better life!

applecake

Welcome, Seven! Glad you are here!

least

Welcome to the family from a fellow Buckeye.

Gibbons2

Seven, no big deal on your headline, I got it right away. We aren't perfect.

Congrats on realizing you have a problem and doing something about it. It is the first step.

One day at a time.

FreeOwl

right on Seven!!!!

Way to go.

Welcome.

FreeFall

Welcome SevenNuts-glad you found SR. You have found a wonderfully supportive gang of people who understand. It is a challenge, but you're up to it!!

steffie

Right on Sevennuts glad to hear that.
A much better life is just around the corner, I know, I'm experiencing the freedom that comes as the dependence on alcohol goes down.
I've never been in jail but I wouldn't doubt it's pretty similar to getting out

kcvalentine

You know, Seven, that's kind of how I did it too. I mean I didn't declare it publicly here exactly, but I started admitting to my family and friends that I was an alcoholic and that I was beginning recovery. I did it as insurance for myself. I'm the type of person who cares about my image and what the people in my life think about me, and I would be so embarrassed if I relapsed. Of course it was also important for me to talk about my recovery because I had a lot to process...still do sometimes! It's been a couple of years since I stopped drinking and feel really solid in my recovery now, so I don't worry about being held accountable anymore. But in the beginning I really appreciated the extra bumper.

Best wishes on your recovery! xoxox

matt4x4

Welcome
Admitting it to yourself, and publicly admitting it is a good start.
What are you willing to do to combat this boozing it up problem?

BrendonM

The change you make in your mind is the first and most critical, good job!

jw1969

Hi SevenNuts! I too have just recently seriously decided to quit, not as easy as I thought it would be. But it is a good decision and you have come to the right place.

Betterlife1

Welcome 7!! I love your post! It's like "I'm just friggen doing this, stay the heck outta my way"!! Seems like your up to the challenge!!

SevenNuts

I'm going to do anything I have to, to combat this problem. I'm starting by admitting and accepting my condition, and not being ashamed or embarrassed. I'm familiar with AA. I'm going to reach out and be part of the fellowship. I'm going to work the steps with a sponsor, and let go of my criticisms regarding belief in God. I do have a Greater Power. I'm going to "quite the debate team" as I believe it says in the 12 and 12. I'm as secular as they come, but I know the steps will help.

Don't get me wrong, I'm scared and not totally confident in this decision, but I've never seen things so clearly and been this determined. I don't want to waste another day lost in the drink.

zombiegirl

Good luck we will all support u xxx

Paul123456

welcome and you have made a wise decision