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Old 02-14-2014, 04:25 AM
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Originally Posted by MarathonMan View Post
starting day 8 today, about to set off on my weekend break so any updates will either by few or non existent. British museum today and then cinema and a meal tonight. Stay strong everyone!!
Have a good weekend, sounds like fun!
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Originally Posted by CAPTAINZING2000 View Post
I never set a limit to this. Just have had thousands of 24 hours all mount up a second at a time.
Enjoy the journey
I know setting a limit is not a solution in itself, but if I can do this it'll prove to me that I can go with drinking and will spur me on to go further. Hope mounting up to thousands of 24 hours
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Day 5! Ready for my 1st Valentines Day without a buzz in several years! Making steak & scallops and staying in tonight. Maybe watch movies. Excited for the weekend! This is the one I am finally not going to screw up!
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Wow thanks for that inspirational video Jus! I'm in on this too. March 13th will mark 30 days for me. Lets fight the good fight together.
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Wow thanks for that inspirational video Jus! I'm in on this too. March 13th will mark 30 days for me. Lets fight the good fight together.
Good luck Blowfish, I'm sure we'll all be better for doing this.
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I'm in! Day one is today for me.
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Old 02-14-2014, 06:53 AM
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Tips that are working for me so far:

1. Exercise. If you're at a loose end, it's amazing how much more lively and positive you feel if you don't sit around. Plus it kills time

2. Don't go hungry. Even if you think you're over-eating, you'll feel better than being hungry, both mentally and physically. Your body will be expecting some extra calories it gets from booze anyway. Making something complex is also good for killing time and keeping you occupied.

3. Stay hydrated. Water is good for you! It helps me just having the glass in my hand sometimes.

4. Talk to someone. If you're feeling lonely, angry, depressed - whatever, it always feels better talking to someone. Text a friend, call someone, post on here or whatever.

5. Keep your mind occupied. Too much time on your hands is a killer! If you can't get out or exercise or something, keep your mind busy - do a puzzle, play a game online or write a list of tips on sober recovery . I have three books on the go at the moment, just in case I don't feel like reading one, I can pick up another easier one. one of these is rational recovery.

Whatever you do, don't 'dwell' on anything negative. Its sometimes too easy to let the darker thoughts take over when you're feeling low.

This is my two cents anyway :~)
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Well done James and everyone else-you're all doing brilliantly
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James, I am rooting for you! Sounds like you have a great plan, but you didn't mention going to AA meetings. I'm not a big fan of AA, but being around people with the same problem helps me.
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Originally Posted by 2muchpain View Post
James, I am rooting for you! Sounds like you have a great plan, but you didn't mention going to AA meetings. I'm not a big fan of AA, but being around people with the same problem helps me.
Hi 2muchpain, Thanks for the support.

I can see why that would be helpful being around people in the same boat, but AA is not something that sits comfortably with me. I started this relationship with alcohol myself and I'll end it myself. I know, I'm stubborn
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what if you can't end it by yourself James? what then?

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what if you can't end it by yourself James? what then?

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I don't know. I just know I'm not ready to give up trying on my own yet.
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i'm in on this. yesterday is when i started my sobriety.
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How's it going James ? Hope you're ok
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How's it going James ? Hope you're ok
Fine thanks Ready, just trying to keep busy. I've managed some exercise/weights and am just about to have my third proper meal of the day. I'm finally managing to get a bit of a routine going.
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Great stuff,Saturday nights were always hard for me but now I love sober staurdays.Keep up the greatwork
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Old 02-15-2014, 11:54 AM
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From today I'm making a commitment to stay sober for 30 days. It will be the longest I have ever stayed sober since starting to drink 20+ years ago. This will take me up to the 14 March (I think?). On that date, the challenge will roll over and start again. Is anyone with me?

Hi there!

Just finished my first 30 days sober and wanna go for more...can I come along for the ride? My wrap date will be March 17th I guess....

BEST!
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Hi there!

Just finished my first 30 days sober and wanna go for more...can I come along for the ride? My wrap date will be March 17th I guess....

BEST!

Congratulations and yes, feel free to join the fun!
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