Should I be on here? Serious question.

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02-06-2014, 01:38 PM

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masanori

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You have a good attitude. It's admirable that you've decided to let him go so that he can concentrate on his recovery.

02-06-2014, 02:01 PM

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Preparedtowait

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I have no choice. I can't force him to love me and he needs to recover, without me. And yes, it physically hurts, my heart feels like it will burst x

02-06-2014, 02:28 PM

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ErikT

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I'm so sorry you're going thru this.....I know how much it hurts....

02-07-2014, 02:46 AM

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Preparedtowait

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Thank you x

02-07-2014, 10:45 AM

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GreenBottles

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Quote:

Originally Posted by Preparedtowait

He has my heart, completely. I need to move on though, i don't mean date or meet other men, i have absolutely no interest in any other men at all. I know I need to let him go though, he said he wants to be single.....But I need the strength to NOT contact him!! I just want to call or text but I know I can't! It is hell.

Yeh but if you dont contact him then it wont be more than a week before he contacts you....
Sorry, but love is ALSO a game, that kind of love. And you need to play it.

02-07-2014, 10:57 AM

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Preparedtowait

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You are right, love is a game. A damn cruel game x I won't contact him, I can't because I can't take more rejection. He needs to do what he needs to do. I just worry that he didn't love me anyway, that it was the alcohol tricking him into thinking he did....then sobriety made him see the truth. I hope that's not the case but it feels like it right now and hurts like hell. x he drank evenings only, half to one litre (sometimes more) of gin or vodka. It all started when he was in the army, he suffers from PTSD. That's the route of his problem. I hope he stays sober and faces his fears. He starts counselling in a couple of weeks but is on detox first advised by his doctor.