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Old 02-03-2014, 03:02 AM
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Day 1....again.....Let's do this!

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After a good 13 days of clean living, I made a stupid decision last week and now regret it. It has taken me another week to get my head to a point where I care; I tend to get into a vicious circle of drinking, feeling worthless and wallowing in negativity.

Anyhow, no more of that! I felt so well when I wasn't drinking and I know I can do this. I am going to use Rational recovery to beat the AV and hopefully I might be having some hypnotherapy. I will check in regularly. Day 1 is always tough BUT I am going to be tougher.
Thanks all!
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you can do it!!

and hey.... at least have a LOOK at the Big Book.

RR and AVRT have some good basis in science and psychology - but personally it would have never worked for me on its own. If I could simply "recognize my AV and CHOOSE to quit" - well... I would have done so long ago.

For me, sobriety takes a concert of tools and approaches and AA's approach has some good stuff that has been helpful to me.

Hit up a meeting and ask for a book... or hey, if you're not comfortable with that yet just read it here;

Big Book On Line - Table of Contents - Linked with the permission of Alcoholics Anonymous World Services, Inc.

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Relapsing does not have to be a part of recovery.

Make a decision to stay away from the first drink whatever happens.

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Happened to me many times. You can do this xxxx
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Originally Posted by Jessicacat1 View Post
Hi all
After a good 13 days of clean living, I made a stupid decision last week and now regret it. It has taken me another week to get my head to a point where I care; I tend to get into a vicious circle of drinking, feeling worthless and wallowing in negativity.

Anyhow, no more of that! I felt so well when I wasn't drinking and I know I can do this. I am going to use Rational recovery to beat the AV and hopefully I might be having some hypnotherapy. I will check in regularly. Day 1 is always tough BUT I am going to be tougher.
Thanks all!
Hi Jessicacat1

I like how quick you have come back, that shows real determination. Good for you.
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Old 02-03-2014, 06:33 AM
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Thanks Autan- The support on SR is vital so I fully intend to post regularly. It really helped me get to day 13 before so I am determined to make more progress this time
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Old 02-04-2014, 12:30 AM
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Hi all- well I managed to get to day 2 successfully - feeling good so far. Making sobriety the only thing that matters this week.
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Im on day one Jessica, have to do it this time! If u made it to 13days last time u will do it again!!
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Day one here too!! again.
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right there with ya Jessicacat1!
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It's just one day at a time, just one. With baby steps to take you there, gently, gently does it. xx
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