NYE strategies? shamelessly cribbed from Crying Out Now: Thanksgiving Survival Guide
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Some good tips there. I am staying home eating and watching dvds with my grandkids. I have no craving nowadays but I find all the NY hype a tad ridiculous and that's not just sour grapes. Perhaps I'm just getting old :) x |
Same here. Staying home and watching movies and eating popcorn. :) I don't want to be on the road anyway due to all the drunks who will be driving. :( |
Go to bed. If the day is harder than you expected, go to bed early just to put the day to rest. Tomorrow is a new day. |
I am going to stay in bed w/ some movies and take out. I am still on a detox program for benzos and I am too new in sobriety to tempt fate on the one day a year I could be 200% certain I'd drink until I blacked out. |
Well said Dee :) the best start to a new year is waking up sober. I always wondered how waking up with a hangover was a good start to the year, but year after year found myself in the same situation .... Not this year tho :) wishing everyone a safe, sober and happy new year |
Sober NYE party with all my AA friends. Should be a blast. |
I've got to charge up here (and another forum, too!) and get my game face on for this NYE. It will be my first one sober AND we are hosting a party. It's not a huge drinking crowd, but there will be booze here. I have already arranged with Mrs Non and my daughter that we will dump out any leftovers before going to bed. Can't wait until morning. Gonna stock up on Ginger Ale tomorrow. #dietvernors. :) |
I purposely volunteered to be on call tomorrow night from 7p to 7a so that takes care of that decision. Horrible of me but there's something about waking up on the 1st with a big huge smile on my face thinking about how many are praying to the porcelain god. Sooooooooooooooo not worth it! Will be in and out of here all evening hanging out with you fine people I'm sure :) |
I am spending the evening with my sisters family, who don't drink at all. There will be lots of food and probably a movie or two and talking. I haven't talked to them in the past few years like I have in the last few days. It is only a few blocks away so i should be safe from all the drunks out driving at 1am when I head home. I am off from work after working tomorrow, so I get 5 days off, and I plan on doing some serious gym time, outside time as weather permits, and shopping! I have been putting the money I was spending on alcohol into an envelope. It would have been pissed away, so I plan on buying me something with it. It is a bit shocking how much it actually is. I have no idea what I will spend it on, but that will be part of the fun :) I never really splurge on myself by just going out looking for something to buy :) |
I copied that one from my Women For Sobriety newsletter and posted it on Weasel1966's NY thread. It has some good tips and is good for both women and men For people in recovery, the holidays can be tough. Seeing family, visiting old friends, having unfulfilled expectations, maybe missing a loved one you lost this year — it can all lead to tension and sadness, as well as thoughts of using. Plus, temptation seems to be everywhere, given all the holiday parties you might be expected to attend. Don’t let those fleeting feelings sneak up on you! Start planning now for how you’ll get through the holidays happy and sober. Sober Holidays Tip #1: Remind yourself every day how good it feels to be sober (and how great it will feel come January 1). Sober Holidays Tip #2: Keep your expectations realistic, so you don’t set yourself up for an emotional letdown. Sober Holidays Tip #3: Limit the amount of time you spend with relatives who make you crazy. Sober Holidays Tip #4: Plan activities other than just sitting around and gabbing. Sober Holidays Tip #5: If the holidays mean being away from home and your home group, be sure to attend meetings wherever you are. Sober Holidays Tip #6: If the holidays mean visiting your old hometown, take time to see old friends you enjoy; avoid those you used to drink or use drugs with. Sober Holidays Tip #7: Take it easy! Sober Holidays Tip #8: If you’re flying and feeling vulnerable, ask the flight attendant for help. Sober Holidays Tip #9: Bring your own beverage. Sober Holidays Tip #10: Plan your own celebrations. Sober Holidays Tip #11: Be sure there is plenty of light in your life. Sober Holidays Tip #12: Don’t romance the drink or drug. Sober Holidays Tip #13: Be very careful about what you eat and drink. Sober Holidays Tip #14: Make a plan for dealing with cravings. Sober Holidays Tip #15: Being in recovery doesn’t mean instant heaven or a perfect life. Sober Holidays Tip #16: It’s okay to tell people you are now in recovery. Sober Holidays Tip #17: Make a plan for staying sober at parties. Sober Holidays Tip #18: Stay sober at the party: Serve yourself. Sober Holidays Tip #19: Stay sober at the party: Don’t go it alone. Sober Holidays Tip #20: Stay sober at the party: Curb resentment. Sober Holidays Tip #21: Stay sober at the party: Be ready to leave. Sober Holidays Tip #22: Stay sober at the party: Take inventory the next day. Sober Holidays Tip #23: Try not to stress about holiday gifts and expenses. Sober Holidays Tip #24: Be ready to return to your regular routine. Sober Holidays Tip #25: Stay in touch with sober friends. Sober Holidays Tip #26: Give thanks. Sober Holidays Tip #27: Wish others Happy Holidays. Sober Holidays Tip #28: Don’t get hungry, angry, lonely, or tired. Constant vigilance can bring great joy and happiness to your sober holiday season! ~EnJOY! - Nancy |
Thanks for posting this- I frequent Crying Out Now as well as SR. both rock! |
Attending a 12 step sober party hosted by my mentor. There is a basketball tournament in his gym at the house. |
I'm worried about cravings tomorrow. :cries3: It's pretty stupid really because it's only because I know everybody will be drinking so I could drink without looking like a drunk right? The perfect excuse to drink, New Years Eve. UGH! 2 weeks for me tomorrow, I'm feeling a bit better, love the no hangover, sober mornings. I think we will have a quiet NYE at home, movies, snacks, maybe watch the ball drop. My husband drinks maybe twice a year and that is one of them, unfortunately, so it won't be easy. Stay safe & sober everybody. |
There are some great tips or cravings here Jessie: http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-cravings.html D |
I shall be sat in front of the computer , i like to try and get live internet feeds from all around the globe and watch different cities and countries welcome in the new year … so about 12:30 in daylight london new years eve i'll try and find sidney harbour bridge fireworks to watch (thanks australia:) ) as you guys welcome in the new year then i like to go to hong kong , beijing , moscow , paris , london , iceland , new york , San Diego , hawaii , and see what they do in each place if anything … being in the middle of it, in london, it can see you through a sleepless night right through till new years day … Bestwishes, m |
I like to do that too Mecanix :) Sounds like everyone is armed and ready. Thank you Dee for this great thread. :hug: |
I really have no plans to celebrate NYE at all. Probably be in bed and asleep before midnight. But lots of plans and goals for the New Year, starting with my first full year clean and sober since I was a kid. |
Staying home with my wife. Plan to order out and we have a movie we both want to watch. Knowing us we'll be asleep on the couch by 10:00. But we'll be up with the sun ready for the new year. Man....I'm glad I'm finally sober! |
mecanix - I'm in Sydney and I'll be watching the fireworks on tv. I plan to stay home and not leave the house for any reason other than an emergency. I have chocolate, movies and my cat. We are staying put on the sofa. I'll post here from time to time so I don't go out for 'milk' and get sidetracked. |
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