Ted...
Holy cow it's Ted.....hey so happy to see you back Santa Clause....tugging your beard.
You hurt your honey.....well you can fix that Ted, and I'm real sorry about that, ugh to life sometimes.
Good to see you back, my bonded buddy.
Denise
You hurt your honey.....well you can fix that Ted, and I'm real sorry about that, ugh to life sometimes.
Good to see you back, my bonded buddy.
Denise
(((((((Ted))))))))
YAY! Your back! Its so good to see you, we've all missed you. Now lets all get back on the bus, we're going to have a FANTASTIC ride! You can be the driver! Love you, Bonni (((Big hugs)))
YAY! Your back! Its so good to see you, we've all missed you. Now lets all get back on the bus, we're going to have a FANTASTIC ride! You can be the driver! Love you, Bonni (((Big hugs)))
hey all.i have really done it.the hurt i have caused to sue,the only person i have.it is unbearable.i'm dealing with so much pain,i don't know what's going on.sue is hurting,i have caused it,i love her,she thinks i'll never get better,i haven't hit my bottom.i've hit so many lows,i can't bear one more....please help....ted
Ted,
You can get better. Don't give up the hope. You know this is a one day at a time program. Just don't drink for today. I will be praying for you. You are taking the right step to get better by asking us for help. Here's a hug and the others will be along shortly to offer more help. We love you.
Sherry
You can get better. Don't give up the hope. You know this is a one day at a time program. Just don't drink for today. I will be praying for you. You are taking the right step to get better by asking us for help. Here's a hug and the others will be along shortly to offer more help. We love you.
Sherry
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Good morning Ted. I'm sorry both you and Sue are hurting (((((((((Ted and Sue)))))). You cannot undo the past,but just try and make today count. Being here and posting is wonderful I think. Whenever I'm in pain or confused, I post or "talk" to as many people as I can until "I" feel better. Better to get everything out then too save it up for an excuse to drink again.
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Originally Posted by ted
hey all.i have really done it.the hurt i have caused to sue,the only person i have.it is unbearable.i'm dealing with so much pain,i don't know what's going on.sue is hurting,i have caused it,i love her,she thinks i'll never get better,i haven't hit my bottom.i've hit so many lows,i can't bear one more....please help....ted
So the progression of pain and remorse is much the same for Sue. And I'm guessing she's slightly pissed at you, to put it politely. And worried. Worried down to the marrow. I've seen that in my wife.
All we can do Ted is stay sober today. Make amends as best you can. With her and with yourself. Yesterday is gone. Tomorrow isn't here yet.
And above all Ted, learn a lesson from this. Drawing something positive from the insanity of the last two weeks will go a long way for both of you.
hey all.i have really done it.the hurt i have caused to sue,the only person i have.it is unbearable.i'm dealing with so much pain,i don't know what's going on.sue is hurting,i have caused it,i love her,she thinks i'll never get better,i haven't hit my bottom.i've hit so many lows,i can't bear one more....please help....ted
I've been at the receiving end of that hurt, and I'll tell you it didn't feel so good, it was years ago, and I still drag it behind me like a dirty old bag of laundry, for the simple reason, he never once said he was sorry, that's all I needed to hear from him, and him mean it. I didn't understand what was going on, why he'd say or do the things he did, and it hurt like H3LL. I remember thinking, I didn't deserve to be treated or talked to the way he did with me, but now I know it's a sickness. You know every now and then I ask him WHY, he was that way with me, and he keeps telling me to stop living in the past, so guess that's what we all need to do, get out of the past, it really serves us no purpose, it does teach us though, might be some hard lessons, but we come out stronger in the long run.
Ted your Sue knows it's a disease...this place probably has really opened her eyes to it. She has to know in her heart how much you love her, and you would never intentionally hurt her, goes to show us how powerful this demon is, the bugger.
Ok I'm done rambling, really hate seeing people hurting bad, life could be so good. Today's a new day, I hope you both find some peace in it, be kind to each other.
Love......Denise
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