Sasha4

I have been a bit absent from here in the last couple of weeks.
Been a bit busy!
My daughter celebrated her birthday.
I celebrated my birthday. A milestone birthday too.
We welcomed my new baby niece to our family. She is gorgeous. She arrived in time for my birthday which made it extra special.

He announced tonight that in 2 weeks he is leaving me for the woman he has fallen in love with over the last couple of months.

The same couple of months, I have been really quite ill and had hospital treatment for.

His behaviour has got worse and worse.
She has stayed in my house so they could sleep together when I have been away with work overnight. This has happened twice that I know of.

One time my daughter was upstairs in her bed.
The 2nd time my parents had my daughter for a sleep over at their house as I had an overnight work meeting.
He invented that he had an overnight work meeting the same night as me and had my mum and dad drive for over an hour so that he could invite her round and our daughter was not there. Not his mum and dad, my mum and dad.

My daughter hates sleeping out.
I was nervous and felt guilty because I know how she hates to sleep out.
I kept texting him to say she was okay and my mum was keeping her occupied and would keep texting me so I knew she was okay.

He was not away.
He lied.
He was in 'our' house with his new woman.
She even washed their breakfast pots the next morning in my kitchen.

I think I will be coming here as much as I can in the next few weeks.
The only thing I feel good about is that I have my family here who will love me and look after me and understand.

Sleep well everyone xxxx

Dee74

I'm really sorry you had to go through all that but honestly? you deserve far better that what you've gotten lately.

This may well prove to be one of the best things that ever happened to you Sasha.

you and your daughter are in my prayers - and happy birthday btw

D

silentrun

You didn't deserve that Sasha.

InsaneHeart

How despicable. I'm so sorry Sacha, what a crappy situation, and your poor daughter! His cheating was more important than your daughter's well-being?? Sick, sick, sick.

soberclover

I heard someone mention as I was going through my divorce that children need at least one good, decent, caring parent. That one good, decent, caring parent can often make up for what the other parent lacks. Stay sober. Take care of yourself. Let your family as well as SR give you the support and encouragement when you need it. This stuff sucks but it does make us stronger in the end

Melina

I'm so sorry, Sasha. That's awful. You deserve better.

Sending hugs,
Melina

Anna

Sasha, you are far too good of a person for your husband.

I know this must be very painful now, but it will turn out to be a blessing for you and your daughter.

Keep reading and posting and know that we are here for you.

SereneEdition

Yes, you do deserve better. We're here for you.

Johnston

I'm sorry to hear about what you've been going through. Sending good energy your way.

Spinach

Good luck with the new arrangements. You will gain so much , life will be difficult as a single parent but you will have more peace in your life.
Just change the locks !!
John.

Jeni26

Well Sasha, this has been a long time coming. I know you had suspected as much in your heart, and sometimes the not knowing can be the hardest thing of all to bear.

Now you know the truth, and as hard as it feels right now, it brings an end to all the deceit, the lies and the betrayal.

You and your partner had been unhappy for a long time, but he took the cowardly way out. He wasn't man enough to face the difficulties and do the honourable thing. I know you might not believe this right now, but you are better off without him. Truly.

I'm here for you. Please get in touch if you need to. You will get past this. Lots of love and hugs for you my lovely friend xxx

least

I'm sorry you have to go thru this mess. But you will come out of it stronger and for once you may be able to have peace in your life. Being alone is better than being treated badly.

GotGrace

Unbelievable. So sorry you and your daughter are enduring this. No one deserves what you are dealing with. Stick close and let us help you along, ok?

Pondlady

I'm very sorry you've been treated this way Come here for support as you begin the next chapter in your life.

Lily

I am so sorry for this treatment. you and your daughter deserve better than that. (((HUGS)))

Ptcapote

((Sasha))

I am so sorry you had to go through this. But I do agree with what the others are saying: this man did NOT deserve you and, as much as it hurts, this will likely turn out to be one of the best things that has ever happened to you. No, not the pain and the betrayal, but definitely getting that jackass out of your life. You have a huge heart and I have both seen and been the beneficiary of your kindness here on SR. You deserve all good things and once this is out of the way? I think the floodgates are going to open for you.

Sending you lots of love and good vibes. Hang in there and please keep us updated on what's happening.

Skye2

Sasha - with respect love.. HE says HE is leaving in 2 weeks?? I would have HIS sorry ass out of the door in the next 30 minutes!

Sorry he's done this to you - always here if you need to talk Xx

pinkdog

Dear Sasha, here's a hug.

MaxxPower

Sorry your having to deal with this backstabbing clown now.

This guy will find out sooner or later..what a mistake he's done with loosing you and your daughter.

Ps..don't forget to use his toothbrush as a toilet bowl cleaner

Hugs from across the Globe!

take care.

Jeni26

I'm thinking of you this morning. Sending you a huge hug xxx