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Old 10-20-2013, 04:45 PM
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My local store was only four houses down from my house, less than a minutes walk :P I would sometimes go twice a night and the guy would always say

"...son, you should buy the bigger bottle and you wouldn't have to come back"

I would go after finishing my first bottle and head back, the same guy was always on as I went twice during one of his shifts, he must have judged me so very hard.

I'm sure he was a lovely chap but hopefully I won't see him again!
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Old 10-20-2013, 04:49 PM
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I paid one store back....they gave me "credit" on a regular basis....I know ALL of those stores miss my money!
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Old 10-20-2013, 05:07 PM
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Years ago, in a city far away, I frequented a convenience store. One day the clerk asked," Where are you from?" I told him. Then he said," You must not like it here." I looked at him puzzled. Finally he said," You drink too much." I changed stores...
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Old 10-20-2013, 05:54 PM
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Lol. This is a good thread. Funny how even buying the darn stuff was even complicated. What you think and how you buy it should be on the Am I an Alcoholic? quiz.

I could have cared less what they thought. One convenience store even named a package after me. The "Shoes" trifecta. 2 bottles of wine and a pack of cigarettes. They would see me pull up in the parking lot and just have it sacked and ready to go.
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Old 10-20-2013, 06:06 PM
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I live 2 blocks from my favorite old liquor store, 6blocks from a grocery store and 1/4 mile from a Costco, all were usual liquor haunts.... temptation is all around.

Funny this thread came up, I went in to the liquor store on Thursday as a favor to a neighbor who is packing up some fragile items to get boxes. They put them up front for anyone to take. Just for a second, I thought of taking a walk through... but didn't. One of the clerks waved at me, but didn't ask what had become of me.

I rotated my visits, the small store for the good stuff and wine, the grocery store when desperate for cheap stuff and Costco for the long haul!
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Old 10-20-2013, 06:10 PM
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I actually work at a gas station and I witness people buying liquor and beer daily. Some even have the shakes. There's one man in particular that comes buy a pint of vodka every morning. I feel bad for him. I want to tell him that he doesn't have to do this. I don't think it's my place. My heart aches for some of these people since I know what it's like.
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Old 10-20-2013, 06:21 PM
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Old 10-20-2013, 07:10 PM
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Unfortunately I can relate to this all too well. I had been sober for 4 months or so prior to my last relapse, and I remember wondering if the local liquor store missed me. Over my last relapse, I went back to the store. It was so shameful to be back in there. And the guy even said, 'good to see you again buddy,' but I think he could tell I was in a low spot.

I can only use that as motivation. I don't ever have to be in that situation again if I don't let myself.
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Old 10-20-2013, 07:28 PM
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Before my drinking escalated, I used to have the bottles ready for the 'regulars'. That was in the bottle shoppe I worked at. Never understood why that offended them until a clerk did the same for me a few months back.
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Old 10-20-2013, 07:39 PM
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I wonder the same thing about the garbage man who picks up my recycling. My empty vodka bottles were so numerous, I was afraid he was gonna tear his rotator cuff throwing it into the truck.
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Old 10-20-2013, 08:48 PM
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Yea, the recycling. In my old condo, I had a recycling bin that I put out for pick up. When they dumped it in the truck, you could hear all the breaking bottles echo down my street.
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Old 10-20-2013, 09:37 PM
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I was a "rotator". I couldn't buy more than one bottle at a time cos if I did I'd just open the second bottle. It was tiresome and exhausting trying to remember the rotation, plaster on a smile for the clerk, horrible anxiety till i was safely home, behind closed doors.

I have a problem now. I'm getting rid of a lot of stuff, and liquor stores always have tons of boxes which I need. But I don't want to even cross the threshold of a liquor store, the idea fills me with distaste.
Any other ideas. Where I could get boxes free, folks? Ta.
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Old 10-20-2013, 09:49 PM
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I had to chuckle at this...4 stores with walking distance.

---never use the plastic black bags from the liquor
---put recycling in a bin away from my house...c'mon
---I said I was buying the wine for my aunt who lived with me (I am sure they didn't believe it)

Oh the things we do....the similar stories are very telling

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Old 10-21-2013, 12:05 AM
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Great thread! I too wondered if a few liquor stores had to close their doors when I quit!
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Old 10-21-2013, 04:14 AM
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I definitely rotated stores. I used to wonder how many regulars the liquor store clerks saw and knew were alcoholics by the frequency.
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Old 10-21-2013, 10:47 AM
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Leshar- ask the grocery store to save "egg boxes"- they are large rectangular boxes the eggs come in (several dozen)- they are FANTASTIC for packing. They genewrally just collapse and recycle them.
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Old 10-21-2013, 10:59 AM
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I was just one drunk out of countless others getting my daily fix. I doubt my presence was even noted, much less my absence.
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Old 10-21-2013, 12:54 PM
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I know the liquor store that I frequented misses me dearly and I am sure they cut back on their orders of Svedka once I stopped buying the poison. I haven't been there in over 2 months. I dropped a lot of cash at that store and I was one of the many regulars that came in every Friday after work. It was embarrassing when they had my bottle ready for me when I walked in the store, but I guess they thought they were being polite. I have to admit that the remainder of the weekend including another trip on Friday night was done by my SO (they thought he was a alcoholic). I would only buy a pint at a time as I thought that moderation meant (buy one pint at a time). Boy, was I fooled.
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Old 10-21-2013, 01:25 PM
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Originally Posted by anchorbird View Post
The liquor store is 1/4 mile from my house (yes, you read that right, and yes, it makes staying sober more difficult).
I live in a trailer park. In the front of the park is a bar. I have to drive through the bar parking lot to get into the park. I do this everyday at least four times a day. To work and back and to my AA meeting and back.

It is fun to drive home on a Friday night when the bar is packed and the music is blaring and people are outside laughing and smoking cigarettes. Fun times.

Actually it is not that bad. I have not gone to bars in years and that bar I have only been in three times and all three trips ended badly...lol
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Old 10-21-2013, 02:06 PM
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i don't know how they survive without me...they must realize a loss in profit
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