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siouxiedon, you know that expression about throwing gas on a fire? If he's already mad, and you know you have an issue with alcohol, confronting him and opening a magnum will not have the effect you want.
My advice is to cool off and sober up, and if you must talk to him, only say that you would like to share tomorrow when both of you have had some time to cool off. I really hope you wait. Now you are angry and have been drinking, so this isn't the right timing I think.
My advice is to cool off and sober up, and if you must talk to him, only say that you would like to share tomorrow when both of you have had some time to cool off. I really hope you wait. Now you are angry and have been drinking, so this isn't the right timing I think.
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Originally Posted by siouxiedon 
yup he is pretending to be asleep , **** it
Think about getting sober and not drinking more. Do it for yourself. You deserve to face a tough situation which may impact your future with a clear head.
I'm not trying to be nosy, but want to ask you if your spouse aware of the extent of your drinking, and has he been living with it for awhile?
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I understand the anger you are feeling. Do you also feel like it gives you an excuse to drink more? It always did for me, I learned to call someone in the program and talk with
someone who could be part of the solution instead of staying in the problem.
someone who could be part of the solution instead of staying in the problem.
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