Raider

Anyone awake

StevenT

I am, what's up?

hayley86

Morning Raider, how are you?.

Kaneda8888

Hey there !

Mentium

Just getting up and about here in the UK..

Raider

Not good. Up drinking at 2am. Husband is pissed

SkyeSea

Hey Raider - what's been happening? By 'pissed' do you mean he's angry or drunk? (pissed means drunk in the UK)

Hope you're ok?

Mentium

I thought you had a booking for rehab Raider. ...?

hayley86

Sorry to hear that you are not doing well. What's going on Raider?. Maybe it would be a good idea to get rid of the alcohol and try and get some rest?. Wishing you well.

Raider

Don't have a bed date yet. He is pissed and drunk but won't tell me why. I probably did something stupid. But he won't talk

hayley86

Raider, issues can't be resolved when one or both people have been drinking. Maybe try and talk about it when you have had some rest?. You are more likely to get somewhere then. Be safe.

Raider

Ok just called the rehab. Have to call back in the am. They will pick me up at seatac and drive me to rehab. Crying.

SkyeSea

Oh don't cry sweetheart, not unless it's tears of joy at the new life opening up for you That's fantastic that they're picking you up in the morning SO thrilled for you x

MythOfSisyphus

Sorry you're having a crappy time. Maybe in the morning things will look better? Probably not much point talking to him while he's drunk.

Raider

No not tomorrow. I'll call back tomorrow to get a alcohol eval then a bed date.

SkyeSea

Ah ok Well, at least things are going in the right direction and you have an end in sight Hang in there!!
Probably best to leave hubbie to his mood tonight - not much point trying to rationalise things when you're both had a sip or two. I'm sure things will calm down in the morning x

hayley86

Raider, calling the rehab tomorrow sounds like a good plan. Please be careful. I hope you are ok.

Nightswimming

Thinking of you Raider. Things will get better. Sounds like you have a plan made. Keep us posted and you know you have support here

StevenT

And this is the beauty of people that are from exactly where you are at, and I know you've been sober for a time so you know what I'm talking about. We band together. We are equals, no matter our time free from alcohol. And we couldn't be sober without each other, for I've rarely seen a drunk make it on their own, with no support. Thank you for being here tonight, for no doubt have you helped myself and others by simply being here and being honest.

My thoughts and prayers are with you as you go into the next day

HeadLump

Thinking of you, Raider