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Old 04-13-2013, 07:00 PM
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Lightbulb A Reminder to All

With the amount of new people here daily, it's probably a good idea to get a little remedial....

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The boards are very busy these days.

The small community a lot of us remember is now a very big one.

Unless there's a open riot we have to generally assume that any little disagreements aren't bothering anyone, are sorted out and fine.

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Old 12-22-2014, 11:46 PM
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For the next few months we're gonna have a lot of new people.
I was treated with kindness and courtesy when I got here.

I was terrified but that kindness and courtesy kept me here.

I think it's really important to remember here, but in this forum especially - we just may be the poster SR gets judged on.

We have a great forum here - let's keep it up
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Old 12-23-2014, 12:28 AM
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This is slightly OT, but since you are clarifying things anyway, I can't seem to find a sticky that defines the symbols by some threads. I've sort of figured some out just by myself like the yellow triangle with the exclamation mark in the middle is one that might be a trigger right? I think? But on like some have a blue question mark and if it's just a question, that means almost all the threads should have a blue question mark right?

I found the sticky with acronym definitions but not a key for the thread symbols, or who puts them there or determines they need one?

Thanks! Great job on an awesome web site/forum!
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Old 12-23-2014, 12:35 AM
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Those icons are selected by the thread starter - they're 'manual', not automatic, so don't waste too much time trying to break the code - there isn't one

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Old 12-23-2014, 01:23 AM
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Old 12-23-2014, 03:19 AM
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Thank you, Dee.

This forum probably saved my life. I always try to keep that in mind.
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Thanks for a timely reminder Dee. Just checking because I don't want to be on the wrong side of the guidelines, but would it be acceptable to call a moderator a Banana Bender?
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Thank you Dee

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Old 12-23-2014, 06:09 AM
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Empathy and compassion go a long way. Thanks, Dee.
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Old 12-23-2014, 08:46 PM
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What a great reminder, particularly for new guys like me. Just as in life first impressions here are key. The difference is if someone gets a bad first impression on SR they may never come back, and we all know how tragic that can be.
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