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Old 06-02-2013, 02:43 PM
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Bring on day 1

Hello. I've been a lurker on this site a few weeks now and finally decided to post in the hope that this will give me extra motivation to stop drinking. Unfortunately I have drunk today so tomorrow will be my day 1. I struggle every day not to drink and the weekends I find just so hard especially when the weather's good. I did 10 days sober the other week and felt so good for it, so it should be easy right??! I relate to so many people's posts on this site in that basically once I start I just can't stop, and not really sure how much I enjoy it when i do drink as even when I'm drinking one drink I'm planning the next. Anyway, bring on tomorrow, day one.
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Old 06-02-2013, 02:58 PM
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Welcome Ali! Glad you joined the discussion
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Old 06-02-2013, 03:02 PM
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Welcome to SR Ali.Glad you are here.

Perhaps the Class of June 2013 would be a good thread for you to join?

Wishing you well.
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Welcome Ali! It's great to have you join us. You'll find the support you need here.

I drank every day by the time I finally quit. As you said, you're not really sure you even enjoy it. That was the point I had reached. I just did it because I always had - and didn't think anything would be fun without it. Being numb is not fun. You can do this, Ali.
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welcome ali - why not join our Class of June thread?
It's for everyone quitting or wanting to quit this month

http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...-2013-a-4.html

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Old 06-02-2013, 03:16 PM
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Hello. I've been a lurker on this site a few weeks now and finally decided to post in the hope that this will give me extra motivation to stop drinking. Unfortunately I have drunk today so tomorrow will be my day 1. I struggle every day not to drink and the weekends I find just so hard especially when the weather's good. I did 10 days sober the other week and felt so good for it, so it should be easy right??! I relate to so many people's posts on this site in that basically once I start I just can't stop, and not really sure how much I enjoy it when i do drink as even when I'm drinking one drink I'm planning the next. Anyway, bring on tomorrow, day one.
Please go to 24 Hour club. We just sign in with time and location for fun and commit to staying clean and sober for the next 24 hours.. I just posted it. It's a good way to be accountable.
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Old 06-02-2013, 03:18 PM
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Welcome to SR Ali

Have you looked into any recovery programs/methods at all? I am sure you'll find that with that and plenty of support you'll be able to kick this x
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Old 06-02-2013, 03:55 PM
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Best of luck with day one and beyond.
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Old 06-03-2013, 05:36 AM
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Thanks for all the replies. I will definitely take a look at the suggested threads, thank you. Day 1 going well so far!
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Old 06-03-2013, 05:51 AM
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Ali when i first started drinking regularly it was an everyday event. When i decided to try and quit i became a binge drinker 4 days here, 2 weeks sober, 7 days here, a month sober. Im not saying relapse is good but not everyone can quit cold turkey. Unfortunately it took me getting a dwi and an attempted suicide to wake the hell up and realize i couldnt do it alone. I dont go to AA but i linger here alot and have recently felt more confident in posting so i dont feel im totally alone. Its helped alot now that im normalizing again and dealing with past buried emotions.

Keeping motivated is the key im learning.
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Old 06-03-2013, 01:53 PM
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Welcome to SR Ali

Have you looked into any recovery programs/methods at all? I am sure you'll find that with that and plenty of support you'll be able to kick this x
No, just been online so far and came across this site which I've found great and seems to be really supportive. my boyfriend is supporting me too so I'm not alone.
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Old 06-03-2013, 01:58 PM
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Ali when i first started drinking regularly it was an everyday event. When i decided to try and quit i became a binge drinker 4 days here, 2 weeks sober, 7 days here, a month sober. Im not saying relapse is good but not everyone can quit cold turkey. Unfortunately it took me getting a dwi and an attempted suicide to wake the hell up and realize i couldnt do it alone. I dont go to AA but i linger here alot and have recently felt more confident in posting so i dont feel im totally alone. Its helped alot now that im normalizing again and dealing with past buried emotions.

Keeping motivated is the key im learning.
Thanks for your post. I'm glad this site has been helping you, I'm hoping it will for me too. I definitely feel more determined this time around and it feels so different now that I've felt more confident to post on here instead of just lurking!!
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Old 06-03-2013, 03:18 PM
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I'll say a prayer for you tonight. Good luck my friend.
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