Still Sober/defending my sobriety
Still Sober/defending my sobriety
2 months and 5 days clean today!! Just wanted to check in since I haven't been here in a few Weeks. It's getting easier everyday now. I had a break down yesterdAy. As you all probably know you still have people in your life who question your sobriety. I had that yesterday and it was one of the most discouraging experiences ever. You fight so hard to stay clean yet you have people sitting there just waiting for you to fail. Not much you can do about them. Just focus on your sobriety and.prove everyone wrong.
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Join Date: Apr 2013
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Well done. Keep fighting the good fight. Anyone who changes their lives like you have done is an inspiration to new members like me. You give me hope that anything is possible I hope and pray that I'll be on here posting like you are doing. I'd love to stay away from alcohol for that length of time. People always question other people who are making positive changes in their lives. I know cause I've been that person who has been critical. Of course I was in denial myself and just hated seeing someone doing something I couldn't at the time
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Join Date: Apr 2013
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I have lost a few friends because they didn't feel I had a problem and wouldn't support my decision. The good news is it is not that hard to make new, sober friends. I actually re connected with some old friends who are sober and didn't want to deal with me when I was drinking. They are very supportive and glad to have me back. If your drinking/addiction caused you to loose touch with some people like I did, I suggest extending the olive branch. I felt the need to apologize for my behavior and it's funny how they only wanted to know I was healthy and to welcome me back. None of my old drinking buddies even cared I was healthy and happy. Goes to show you who your real friends are. Hope this helps.
Well done. Keep fighting the good fight. Anyone who changes their lives like you have done is an inspiration to new members like me. You give me hope that anything is possible I hope and pray that I'll be on here posting like you are doing. I'd love to stay away from alcohol for that length of time. People always question other people who are making positive changes in their lives. I know cause I've been that person who has been critical. Of course I was in denial myself and just hated seeing someone doing something I couldn't at the time
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Join Date: Apr 2013
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You sound so strong and happy. It makes me feel so much better knowing that maybe someday I can be like that. It's ironic that when I drink I think I'm happy so I drink more and more until I wake up hungover depressed isolated. I then used that as an excuse to drink again. Something went off in me last week and I found SR and its been like a lifeline to me since. I'm under no illusion I've a very hard journey ahead of me but I take solace in the fact that there are people out there who have been in a bad place and changed their lives. Fair play to you your a great person in my eyes
I went to forums like this and saw people sober for even 5 DAYS and I envied them
There were times when I felt like I might never get clean.
I remember reading stories like yours and they are VERY inspiring.
Day 1? I lost count of how many Day 1's i've had. Easily over 1,000.
But you just have to keep getting up and trying again. TRY WHATEVER IT TAKES. It's worth it.
. As you all probably know you still have people in your life who question your sobriety. I had that yesterday and it was one of the most discouraging experiences ever. You fight so hard to stay clean yet you have people sitting there just waiting for you to fail. Not much you can do about them.
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