PreciousKitty

My sis-in law wants me to talk to her daughter (27) abiout her drinking. I had no idea but I guess she thinks she is an alcoholic and talked to her mom about it. She wants to talk with me.

It is a good feeling to know that i can be there to help someone, but other than here on SR, this is the first time anyone has really asked me for help or advice, and I am a little nervous. Afraid of saying the wrong thing, saying too much, or not saying enough.

hypochondriac

I am sure just being there to listen as someone who understands will be a massive help to her. Just share your experience x

PreciousKitty

Your so right. There I go again trying to plan everything and make it perfect. When is all I have to do is listen and share my experience. Thanks Hypo.

jscorpio

I would also recommend SR to her. We all know how helpful this website is. Glad to hear you have the opportunity to share your experience with someone else.

lilyrosemary

There are a few things i learned from my sponsor about this. she taught me to take "you should" and "you need to" out of my vocabulary. also, as stated to just listen and share. i understand what you are saying though, it's a mixed feeling, to be approached for help, and being uncertain about what to say/do. i dont know if you are a spiritual person but i count on God to give me the right words at the right time. Best wishes to you.