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Old 03-21-2013, 12:44 PM
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Hi..I'm Gretchen. I am looking to talk to other alcoholics. I am in depart need to figure this out. Why am I a smart, attractive women that cant get her **** together all because of alcohol.
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Hi, Gretchen. Welcome!
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Old 03-21-2013, 12:49 PM
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Welcome Gretchen. Alcoholism is not prejudiced against anyone, it's an equal opportunty addiction. SR is a great place to learn and talk about addiction and recovery.
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Old 03-21-2013, 12:58 PM
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Hey, glad to see you got your own thread started.

Alcohol is the great equalizer...it makes all of a bunch of ***** who can't get their stuff together. Not until we quit.
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Old 03-21-2013, 01:28 PM
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Hi Gretchen

Like the rest are saying, nobody's too smart to be an addict. Addiction doesn't give a flying one about your IQ. Nor does it do anything for you in the short or long-term attractiveness stakes either!

Your brain will over-complicate everything. It will try and rationalize your every thought. It will allow you to tell yourselves such blatant lies that if you heard such rubbish from anyone else, you'd just laugh at them.

It's an oldie but goodie this one - keep it simple. Do that for starters and you'll find you're off to a flyer.

Stay with us!
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Old 03-21-2013, 01:33 PM
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Hi Gretchen,


Just posting here is a positive step in your recovery. Stay close to the forum, there is always someone here for you.

Good luck on your journey.
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Old 03-21-2013, 02:16 PM
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Originally Posted by GretchenA View Post
Why am I a smart, attractive women that cant get her **** together all because of alcohol.
It's not that you can't. You just haven't yet.

Lot's of us felt helpless when we first got here.

You're on the right road. Start walking.
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Old 03-21-2013, 02:21 PM
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Old 03-21-2013, 02:44 PM
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First off Welcome!
Secondly you have positive qualities and opinions of yourself. That is a great thing. Realizing your self worth may make the transition to sobriety much easier. Alcohol is the one thing holding you back, you can find the support and kindness you need here. We will not judge you and will gladly listen.
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Old 03-21-2013, 02:56 PM
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Welcome Gretchen

I think you'll be amazed at what sober you can do

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Old 03-21-2013, 02:58 PM
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Glad to meet you, Gretchen! You'll find support, encouragement, and hope here.
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