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Old 05-03-2004, 02:58 PM
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Hi everyone...wow where do i start. Im 25yo male. ive recently broke up with my fiance of 6 years. ( she was just sick of it) I have a beatiful 4yo son with her. my drinking has taken my life over. my whole day revolves around it. not that i drink all day but i talk and think about it all the time. now i drink on weekend mornings and alone alot. i just want my life back. I need control. I hope i can do this..thanks
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Old 05-03-2004, 03:12 PM
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Hi Closer,

Welcome to SR. You've come to the right place for support and understanding and to find a way to get your life back. I know exactly what you mean about your day revolving around drinking. My life and my world became smaller and smaller as drinking took over more and more of my mind. But, you can do this. You can stop the cycle and regain your life. Hang around here and be inspired.

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Old 05-03-2004, 03:13 PM
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HEY CLOSER,WELCOME
WHERE DO YOU START?
YOU JUST DID MY FRIEND,YOU SAID YOU CAN'T DO THIS ANY MORE.
THAT IS THE BEGGINING,YOUR SEEKING HELP.
THERE'S ALOT OF SUPPORT TO BE HAD HERE,STICK AROUND,
THE GANG WILL BE HERE TO WELCOME YOU.

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Old 05-03-2004, 03:15 PM
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thnks guys. im gonna give my best..its time
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Old 05-03-2004, 03:18 PM
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Welcome Closer
And thats just where you are--closer to staying sober--you came to the right place!
This site is my haven!! Stick around--alot of people here who care!
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Old 05-03-2004, 03:58 PM
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Closer Welcome to SR my name is Trish and I am an alcoholic.I drank in much the same way. For myself I had to be detoxed and sought medical attention.I attend a support group which is key to my recovery.Congradulations on your decision to change your life! I am pullin for ya! Peace and prayers. Trish
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Old 05-03-2004, 04:08 PM
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Hey Closer!

I'm Missy and I'm an alcoholic. It's great that you are seeking help! Odd how everyone can see we have a problem but us. I know my sober life is so much better then my drunk one. Doesn't even compare. Stick around, there's a great bunch of people here!

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Old 05-03-2004, 04:14 PM
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heh closer

I am an alcoholic.
AA was what has worked for me
asking for help is huge!
but no need to stop at that
lots o good posting here
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Old 05-03-2004, 04:17 PM
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Closer.. Welcome to the forum.. I am a 28 year old alcoholic..

Good for you for taking the first step and looking for help.. Like you, I came to a similar conclusion over 2 weeks ago and been sober ever since.. Stick around, this place is great for support !!!
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Old 05-03-2004, 04:23 PM
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wow this is for real..you guys are great. thank you
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Old 05-03-2004, 04:43 PM
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Hi closer....pleased to meet you, welcome to sober recovery...yipppeee on wanting to get your life back. Best gang around you know, you've already met some. I'm so happy you found us and it's great you're reaching out for help. Wishing you the best on your recovery, time to stop the insanity eh?

Hugs......Denise (soberly confused)
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Old 05-03-2004, 08:05 PM
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Hi Closer, I'm Marty, an alcoholic. I also loved to shut myself away and drink alone. I was ruining my life. But now I know that it doesn't have to be that way. As Mackat said asking for help is important. Most of us can't do it alone. Welcome!
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Old 05-03-2004, 09:45 PM
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closer,

my name is dot and im an addict. theres a lot of support and encouragement here! stick around! good to see ya at the online meeting!

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Old 05-03-2004, 10:10 PM
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yeah closer, this really is for real just wait and see. good to hear you share tonight, and I'm glad your here.

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Old 05-03-2004, 10:53 PM
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Hi Closer

I'm JC - alcoholic. Keep posting and reading the other posts. They help me understand, and stay sober.

JC :throb
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Old 05-04-2004, 02:23 AM
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HEY CLOSER,GOOD TO SEE YOU GETTING IN WITH BOTH FEET.
THAT WAS A GOOD MTG LAST NIGHT.THANKS FOR SHARING.
THATS JUST HOW WE GET BETTER,PUT IT OUT THERE.
WE,NOT I CAN DO THIS!
STICK AROUND,KEEP POSTING.

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Old 05-04-2004, 12:15 PM
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Sorry I missed welcoming you! Thanks for your participation in chat! Hope to see you often, you can do this with support and friendship.
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