What's the rush?
 

If I can offer any bit of encouraging, it's this (well it's this for today, lol):
Don't compare yourselves to others. Everyone's recovery path is unique to them. Whether they started before or after you, we all reach different points at different times. We are exactly where we are supposed to be. Enjoy the scenery, learn the lesson, apply it where it fits and do the next right thing. This life moves too fast to get caught up in what others are doing. We share experience strength and hope. We can help each other. We can recover, in due time. :) :thanks

Very good advice :)

Totally agree. I want to climb the mountain forever, never reaching the top..

I have had to learn this over and over and over again. I still need reminding at times. Well said. :)