Retreat
Retreat
So I've been sober for 8 months. Did not do detox - just stopped on my own (I know, not too bright). But without the benefit of that initial period to really reflect on my alcohol addiction I find I need to spend some time thinking things through. So next Monday I head off to a hotel for 5 days for a solo retreat. Goal is to assess what I want and how I will get there. No electronics on this trip. Just a few books - the AA big book, something on self-esteem (a huge issue for me).
Looking for any suggestions on topics for reflection or retreat experiences.
Looking for any suggestions on topics for reflection or retreat experiences.
Learning to live in the moment with neither a hangover from the past nor aprehension over the future is useful for everyone i believe , that might be a good practaice .
Remember SR is here if you start to feel too isolated
I hope it's insightful ,
Bestwishes, M
Remember SR is here if you start to feel too isolated
I hope it's insightful ,
Bestwishes, M
Great idea Version2, I plan on doing something similar later this year. I have taken a week off next week to 'regroup' but I won't be going anywhere, just hanging out at home reading. It won't be so much to reflect on my alcoholism as that's something I do daily by coming here. When I was drinking I never took holidays, just the odd day off here and there but I am really starting to enjoy taking the odd week off to myself. The first time was not successful because it was the first time I had ever had that long off with no responsibilities and of course my first instinct was to get drunk. I spent that week here. Now it's easier. In the future I fully intend to go on meditation retreats and maybe get a cottage out in the sticks somewhere. I think just learning to be okay by ourselves as we are is very important and often overlooked x
Thanks hypochondriac. I used to get drunk on vacation too. And I thought I would never be able to enjoy a vacation without it. Especially camping. With no beer? But it actually fun.
I think what I hope to focus on is to get in touch with the me from long ago. Since drinking I have let go of so many hopes and dreams. I just tried to get numb. And now I see that there may still be things I want to do.
I am also a bit nervous about having no phone or iPod. I will have no escape from my thoughts. Not sure what I will have to face in my own head for a week. Gulp. I think I use those to block out thoughts. I will be walking a lot. Looking forward to that. And hitting a morning AA meeting each day.
Thanks for listening.
I think what I hope to focus on is to get in touch with the me from long ago. Since drinking I have let go of so many hopes and dreams. I just tried to get numb. And now I see that there may still be things I want to do.
I am also a bit nervous about having no phone or iPod. I will have no escape from my thoughts. Not sure what I will have to face in my own head for a week. Gulp. I think I use those to block out thoughts. I will be walking a lot. Looking forward to that. And hitting a morning AA meeting each day.
Thanks for listening.
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I'm glad to hear you are walking version2. That was the first suggestion that came to mind. I must have walked a "million" miles in my first year. ( well, it felt like that anyway ). I don't listen to music or news or books on tape when I am walking. The sound of whatever body of water I am walking by is enough for me. The topic I reflected on the most was self forgiveness. That has been my biggest obstacle during my recovery.....learning to forgive myself. I'm making progress
Congrats on 8 months! That's so great!
Congrats on 8 months! That's so great!
Thanks LDT. I have to admit I have not started walking yet. But sounds like that would be useful at home or on retreat. I think I resist these things when I should just do it and trust that it will help. Argh. Why do we need to feel that we are controlling everything? Anyway I will do the walking. Thanks.
The Ottawa Intergroup has a nice 8 page newsletter with lots to read and reflect on. Maybe take a look at that. The definition of Honesty has a lot of words following it. If you aren't bringing a laptop, do some prior research and come up with a plan. AA has some retreats, but you'd have to do a search for them or call the intergroup. Meditation wil bring you answers to your questions, too!
I wish you well on your solo retreat!
I wish you well on your solo retreat!
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