alli19

I feel like no matter how hard I try my family just don't care and im really over it im done idk how much I can take until I break

Dee74

hi alli

are your family your only support in your recovery?

Some families are great at support and some are not - often it has nothing to do with us at all.

Is there other support you can look into?

D

alli19

I have pretty much no support in anything just me

PreciousKitty

What's going on Alli?

Dee74

There's lots of support here alli

D

alli19

thx I know
Its just I changed im in college but yet they keep telling im messing around idk what to do and there still goin

YouRmySunshine

you have reached out here, I hope you can find a meeting. Very few have ever been able to stay sober with out a plan & a support system.

ACT10Npack

It's not you're family responsible to keep you sober. That's all on you.

Bubovski

True, despite often really tough circumstances, environments, and all manner of problems. sometimes we need to seek out new and meaningful support, geared to our immediate needs, coming from our own understanding and volition.


Nil alcohol day 31

alli19

Umm I never said it was my family responsible to keep me sober I never said that

andisa

After we've started using drugs, especially early in life, our family worries about us but doesn't necessarily know how to handle it. It may seem like they're not trusting you, or not supporting you, but that may be because they don't know how to handle things.

I was 19 when I seriously started using. My family didn't know what to do. I didn't want them to interfere, and they didn't want to see what was going on, so essentially nothing was done. Nothing about my developing addiction was discussed. Turned into a 20 year active addiction and I'm still in it.

Alii, if you need to talk to your parents, go talk to them. Tell them where you're at and be honest about it, for your sake and for theirs.

alli19

Thx I know but its hard for me to talk to them