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Old 01-08-2013, 07:09 PM
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Not feelin' it...
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We aren't emotionally intelligent, I agree with this!
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Old 01-09-2013, 07:07 AM
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I like the ideas in the article. I can't redo my adolescence, though, where many of my destructive behaviors and coping non-skills started (even before drinking). Did you read Emotional Intelligence by Daniel Goleman? I haven't read it lately... several years ago... on paper it's great, but for whatever reason I can't lift the information out of the book and make changes myself. I don't know why some of us are like that.

Fortunately, I've found a few people who help me in person
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No-one is too intelligent for addiction. No-one is too intelligent for recovery. No-one is too dumb for addiction. No-one is too dumb for recovery. Addiction doesn't hand pick it's victims based on their social status or intelligence. It just picks us out one at a time.

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Feelin' what?
Not feelin' the article. It's reads like regurgitated rehab literature.

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No-one is too intelligent for addiction. No-one is too intelligent for recovery. No-one is too dumb for addiction. No-one is too dumb for recovery.
I would agree.
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Old 01-09-2013, 09:07 AM
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It's not saying that. It's simply illustrating some pitfalls to be wary of on the road to recovery.
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Old 01-09-2013, 10:02 AM
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I understand. I was just sharing my opinion. I have very strong feelings about some of the ideas presented as fact. Reading all kinds of material is wonderful; personally, I think one can never be too informed. I'm just saying, read with a critical eye...that's all.
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Addiction is one of the great equalizers.
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Old 01-09-2013, 10:13 AM
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OK I have to be honest here . My fragile ego is loving that article.
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I think everyone loves to hear they're super intelligent.
We all have egos and this kind of approach panders to that, IMO.

Alcoholism is an equal opportunity destroyer.

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The article revolves around the "illusion of control," a mental attribute the "bright" people possess. Yep, that's what I'm talking about. It is an illusion.
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Old 01-09-2013, 02:08 PM
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Exactly. Like I said before; this gives tools to people who haven't found a recovery plan that works for them yet.

That's all.
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