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Old 01-07-2013, 01:43 PM
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2 Years ago tonight I put the drink down.

I know their is a thread on my battle with the booze but I thought I would start another for people who have not read it.
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Old 01-07-2013, 01:56 PM
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That is just awesome! congrats!
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Well done Spen, I loved your other thread
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Old 01-07-2013, 02:20 PM
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Congratulations on 2years spen.
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Hey spen - it's great to know you're doing well! Congratulations on 2 years!
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Old 01-07-2013, 02:24 PM
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2 years is totally awesome. Congratulations x
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Old 01-07-2013, 02:29 PM
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Nice to see you again Spen!

I often mention your thread when replying to other newcomers.
I think I called you a hero in one post!
But you are to me.
I remember your struggles, your unhappiness, the problem that drink had caused and yet look at you now 2 years! That is flipping amazing!

How's life, how's the kids?

That second year seemed to fly by!
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Hello - Awesome!!

How is your family?
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Old 01-07-2013, 02:36 PM
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Well done ! Link for other thread
maybe ?
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Old 01-07-2013, 02:50 PM
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http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/...my-bottom.html

And its still spelt incorrectly!

Thanks everyone!
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2 years WOW!!!!!!!!!!! NICE!!
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The other ones nearly at 500 posts anyway spen so it's good to start another one
congratulations again

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Way to go Spen!! I've read your other thread and remember your struggles. Well you're doing it right now. Congrats again!
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Old 01-07-2013, 03:54 PM
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Blinkin' brilliant!
My eyes are falling out of my head.
I just read the entire thread.
I have followed your progress all along. We are around the same time.
Don't know why, I never commented.

I am absolutely delighted for you.
Well done, really and truly, well done!
Quite honestly, should be required reading.

We do recover!
We do get well!
We do, we do, we do.
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Old 01-08-2013, 08:08 AM
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Dee could you change the name of this thread please? People will recognise it as mine.

Anyway update.
Two years have passed since I threw the towel in with the booze (and stopped smoking too). I used AA quite a lot for the two years but never really got involved with the steps. Im very pigheaded and stubborn and still clung on to that self will has a big part to do with it. And now I am even sure. With that I have decided to just go to AA once a week now so that I can start to explore other things I want to do. The meetings get in the way and I tend to think that I do not need them. Especially when some of the things said nearly make me sick/laugh. I willl not bore you with them.

Now Ive been told "you will drink again now!". Which I know for a fact that it just spurs me on even more not to drink, to prove these people wrong. The meetings will always be there for me if I need to go back.

In the two years off the drink, I have ran 3 half marathons, 10 marathons and 2 ultra marathons of 35 and 50 miles in distance. For this year I plan 4 ultramarathons of 40, 52, 62 and 105 miles in length. I also plan to do a mile open water swim and maybe some kickboxing. This will take a lot of training and rest so another reason why AA becomes what it should be a bridge to normal living.

I am single again, the lady I was dating was not right for me and we had nothing in common and to be honest, unless the one comes along i am quite happy single for the time being.
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Fantastic! Congratulations and keep on keepin on!!
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Old 01-08-2013, 10:09 AM
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Since you are running like a mad-man, lol,
Do it for charity!
Throw on a pink T-shirt and off you go.

I wouldn't take it personally when people say that you will drink again.
It is personal I suppose, they believe you may drink again, but, it is meant in a good way.

Also, do you see that perhaps the running etc is obsessive?
Just throwing it out there.
If only I would get obsessed with fitness and health!
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Old 01-08-2013, 10:18 AM
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Someone said to me "You are obsessed by running!" I said "do you always watch Eastenders, if so you are obessessed!"
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