Notices

Do you have to be an alcoholic to have a drink problem?

Thread Tools
 
Old 01-07-2013, 02:32 PM
  # 21 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2010
Posts: 484
Originally Posted by Dee74 View Post
I used to work with a guy who would drink once a year - 24/7 for anything up to 4 weeks. He'd often end up in hospital.

He's dead now.

what do you reckon his problem was Squizz?

D
Oh come on Dee. That's painting far too broad of a picture for me to even attempt to make an assessment of his situation. And you know it.

It could be a number of things. What did he die from? What was his family situation like?

That's like saying, "My aunt so and so died, how do you reckon she died?"

How do you expect me to come up with an answer to that question?

I know I'm smart, but I can't turn straw into gold my friend.
Squizz is offline  
Old 01-07-2013, 03:20 PM
  # 22 (permalink)  
Administrator
 
Dee74's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: Australia
Posts: 211,442
I wasn't looking for an answer Squizz.
That was my point actually.

I honestly doubt that without any help anyone with a drinking problem could go one year without drinking.
my friend died directly from his drinking, only drinking for a period of weeks every year.

I drank all year round for 5 years...and didn't die.
It leaves me humbled and helps me realise there's so much I just don't know.

D
Dee74 is offline  
Old 01-07-2013, 03:52 PM
  # 23 (permalink)  
Been there, done that!
 
Lionhearted1's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2012
Location: London
Posts: 539
Alcohol does not care what you call it or what you think you are if you drink enough for long enough it will kill you regardless of if you are an abuser, binger, alcohol dependent..

I spent years in denial because of a word alcoholic now I know that it does not matter what I call it all I do know is it wants me dead!!
Lionhearted1 is offline  
Old 01-09-2013, 05:15 PM
  # 24 (permalink)  
Member
 
Join Date: Feb 2010
Posts: 484
Originally Posted by Dee74 View Post
I wasn't looking for an answer Squizz.
That was my point actually.



my friend died directly from his drinking, only drinking for a period of weeks every year.

I drank all year round for 5 years...and didn't die.
It leaves me humbled and helps me realise there's so much I just don't know.

D
Fair enough. But I stand firmly behind my statement.
Squizz is offline  
Old 01-09-2013, 09:18 PM
  # 25 (permalink)  
Member
 
wpainterw's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jun 2010
Location: Massachusetts
Posts: 3,550
Of course! You don't have to be an "alcoholic" to have a drink problem. What's in a name? It's like a spectrum and also everyone is different to a degree. It's not like suddenly someone hangs a sign on your neck and calls out, "Congratulations! You're an alcoholic!" What's important is what's been happening (there are checklists for that) and whether something has to be done about that to keep more things from happening. Were you drinking to "self medicate" or to socialize? Sounds like there may have been a bit of self medication. Being a doctor for yourself is always a risk.

W.
wpainterw is offline  

Currently Active Users Viewing this Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off





All times are GMT -7. The time now is 04:39 AM.