Today has been dreadful
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Join Date: Sep 2012
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Today has been dreadful
Oh My Days!!!
It started with a massive row with my hubby over the most ridiculous of things, my two darling children are upset to see me cry.
Rescued with a trip to the beach, slient drive for 45 mins, but had so much fun in the cold and rain.
Came home to deal with another call off my dad regarding my mum's tax return and once I had nothing else he wanted to hear he hung up.
I was so mad, started sobbing my husband wraps his arms around me and squeezed me tight, my DS asked why is mum off again and I hear my poor husband trying to explain to my 10yr old son about me having a bad period and it makes women cry (it did make me chuckle as I'm not even sure he knows about periods)
I phoned my brother to see if he can shed any light and he tells me everytime he brings me up they both ignore anything he says (for you newbies 7 wks ago my past blew up about an uncle sexually abusing and as a result my parents are not speaking to me)
I've had a bath and some tea and toast but feel absolutely shattered.
Day 3 = nightmare of a day
Hope your all keeping well x
It started with a massive row with my hubby over the most ridiculous of things, my two darling children are upset to see me cry.
Rescued with a trip to the beach, slient drive for 45 mins, but had so much fun in the cold and rain.
Came home to deal with another call off my dad regarding my mum's tax return and once I had nothing else he wanted to hear he hung up.
I was so mad, started sobbing my husband wraps his arms around me and squeezed me tight, my DS asked why is mum off again and I hear my poor husband trying to explain to my 10yr old son about me having a bad period and it makes women cry (it did make me chuckle as I'm not even sure he knows about periods)
I phoned my brother to see if he can shed any light and he tells me everytime he brings me up they both ignore anything he says (for you newbies 7 wks ago my past blew up about an uncle sexually abusing and as a result my parents are not speaking to me)
I've had a bath and some tea and toast but feel absolutely shattered.
Day 3 = nightmare of a day
Hope your all keeping well x
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Hi Dorris,
Tomorrow is another day so keep your chin up.
We are off to north wales as a family tomorrow for the weekend and will be making the most of the mild weather with a walk along the beach too.
Have a good weekend,
Bruno.
Tomorrow is another day so keep your chin up.
We are off to north wales as a family tomorrow for the weekend and will be making the most of the mild weather with a walk along the beach too.
Have a good weekend,
Bruno.
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I really can't thank you all enough, this site has provided me with so much support.
Anna I'm in complete shock how they have turned their backs on me, I never saw it coming they have always been such good parents and grandparents.
Sazzle I truley do have an amazing husband and he is bearing the brunt of all my anger and frustration.
Bruno I hope you and your family have a wonderful weekend away.
Tomorrow is a new day and I hope it's no where near as bad as today xxx
Anna I'm in complete shock how they have turned their backs on me, I never saw it coming they have always been such good parents and grandparents.
Sazzle I truley do have an amazing husband and he is bearing the brunt of all my anger and frustration.
Bruno I hope you and your family have a wonderful weekend away.
Tomorrow is a new day and I hope it's no where near as bad as today xxx
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Thinking of you Dorris, hugs and tomorrow will be better. You do not have to be mama's little doormat, she can respect you (unlike christmas)m if she wants help with her taxes.
Whew, i hope you feel better soon.
Whew, i hope you feel better soon.
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Hi Dorris,
I'm so sorry for your bad ay. Try to be strong. I just finished my day 3 also. Don't let other peoples behavior give you an excuse to fail. I'll say a special prayer for you ahnd I tonight.
Love
Diana
I'm so sorry for your bad ay. Try to be strong. I just finished my day 3 also. Don't let other peoples behavior give you an excuse to fail. I'll say a special prayer for you ahnd I tonight.
Love
Diana
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Hey Doris! Sorry about the bad day. Sobriety brings so many emotions, but the cool thing is, without the crutch of our drug of choice, we are allowed to feel things we haven't felt in ages! There is a silver lining here. Give it time, you'll see it and you will be thankful for the reality! Best wishes babe!
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