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I am currently living with an ah husband who has gotten progressively worse since his sister was murdered.He has done some horrible awful things this past year..such as trying to sell me to other men,I filed a police report each time, going on a character defamation tangent
about me with our family doctor, escalating to screaming at me,
he and his alcoholic buddy decided to change the hot water heater
and took the hose and flung it around soaking my precious possessions.
These are just a few instances.I am attending al-anon and getting counseling.
My counselor is trying to get me to leave but I have a genetic disability
and it takes money..although I am ready to take what I can lately
and leave.Instead of using the shop vac to clean up the water, he uses
exactly 17 towels piling them in the washing machine..I mean they were piled
and dripping...I was using the shop vac and he decided to call his elderly
relatives to come over and help these ladies are in their late 70's and late 80's.I diplomatically tried to stop him and he started screaming at me.I said I was going to a motel and got ready but decided I was too upset to get behind the wheel and I fell asleep.Over the summer I was cleaning some old papers of his and found medical bills and bail receipts from before we were married..he had been hospitalized and jailed for DUI several times but did not seem to think it important to mention to me.Medically he is suffering from brain damage from the drinking ,the medical community I have consulted
which leads to dementia.He does not equate his actions with negative results.He has not ability to understand the consequences of his actions.
He refuses help I have tried .The incidents I stated above are just a few of the incidents he has managed to do.
Thank you for letting me join this group.
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