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Old 12-06-2012, 02:07 PM
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Question Very Stressful Day

I have had a very very stressful day that I need to share about. But I will try to keep it short.

My sister has learning disabilities and mental health problems. She normally lives in supported housing but for the time being she is back with us in the family home. Today I went with her to look at some new accommodation and we had quite a nice day and she seemed to be in an okay mood. We had dinner and then I went upstairs to shower and chillout.

So I was chilling out when I heard some almighty shouting coming from downstairs. I ran downstairs to see my sister holding my mum up by her throat whilst my little brothers were trying to figure out what to do. My younger brother broke into tears and I had to attempt to restrain my sister whilst being pummeled in the struggle. So that happened.

I have spent the last few hours incredibly stressed and anxious. My sister left for a bit but is now back in the house. She will be in emergency accommodation tomorrow. I spoke to my sponsor, I rang a friend. I drank some nettle and peppermint tea. I didn't think of using. I thought about calming down somehow but I didn't wanna pick up.

I'm being sent a lot of tests at the moment. I know they build my character but at the moment I am right in the middle of one so I won't fully appreciate it until this moment has passed. Tomorrow I am going to London for a date with a Suicide Girl (for those who don't know they are like alternative/punk models...and that's my thing) and I am planning to go round the Natural History Museum and just chilling out.

I needed to vent, thanks.

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Old 12-06-2012, 02:09 PM
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((Natom)) - Sorry you are going through all this with your sister and family, but grateful you are doing what you need to do for YOU!

Hugs and prayers,

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Thank goodness you were sober and able to handle the awful situation with your sister. Hopefully she will be safely taken care of tomorrow.

Try to relax and enjoy the day tomorrow.
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Old 12-06-2012, 02:16 PM
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Vent as much as you need, we are here for that!
You are doung great, finding alternatives to deal with the stress!
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I'm sorry to hear about your Sister! My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family!! That's a scary situation for everyone!! Stay strong!!
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Prayers for you and your family Tom.
Enjoy your date

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Old 12-06-2012, 02:41 PM
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thank you for your helpful comments. I hope you are doing ok
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Sorry you had such a difficult day. I am glad you were there for your mom and your younger brother. Sending prayers and hugs your way.
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Glad you posted and sorry for the troubling times. Tomorrow is another day and hopefully a better one.
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