how to help her?
 

hello everyone. im posting this cuz i need help with my g/f, shes a drug addict and she got raped last night, i took her to hospital and she refused 2 report it. now my main concern is how do i help her get through that? shes cried all day and shes still shaking, doesnt wanna sleep cuz she sees the guy doing this to her again. she's going to treatment soon and i'd like to know if any of you guys know how i can help her stay clean with what happened.

I'm really sorry to hear of you and your gf's troubles drummer.

I hope in terms of dealing with what happened last night she'll at least take a look at this website:

RAINN | Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network | RAINN: The nation's largest anti-sexual assault organization.One of

In terms of her recovery - I hope the treatment facility she's going to can help her turn things around.

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thanks dee, i'll talk to her about that site

I'm really sorry that your girlfriend is going through this. How awful!

I hope that she would be open to counselling to help her deal with her feelings, and the website Dee posted is great.

she isn't open to counseling, she says shes doing alright but i see shes not alright, at least shes still sober

I'm sorry this has happened to her.

What kind of treatment is she going to get without counseling?

she isn't opened to counseling before treatment. she will wait to get in treatment to talk about it i guess.