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Old 11-05-2012, 02:24 PM
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Counselors who do not like AA

I am a fan of AA and I think it has helped me stay sober. I am also in an AODA course and get a little cranky when counselors bash AA. AT the same time they tell you to go to meetings and the workbook is centered around the 12 steps. A bit hypocritical I think. They say AA only has a 5% success rate. How the hell do they know that?
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I have no idea and I don't know what AODA is either. I don't use AA, but I wouldn't pay much attention to a statistic.

And, if your counsellor is expressing ideas opposite to what you believe, then perhaps it's time to look into getting a different counsellor? Is that possible?
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Originally Posted by FamilyMan2153 View Post
I am a fan of AA and I think it has helped me stay sober. I am also in an AODA course and get a little cranky when counselors bash AA. AT the same time they tell you to go to meetings and the workbook is centered around the 12 steps. A bit hypocritical I think. They say AA only has a 5% success rate. How the hell do they know that?
Interesting. I'm NOT a fan of AA and am still not terribly pleased about the fact that when I presented for treatment of my problem, I was told that AA was absolutely the only way to get sober.

That was wrong, of course, but what you're presented with is just plain confusing.

I'm still waiting for the day when addiction treatment truly makes sense. I think it's better than it was, but there's still a lot of nonsense out there.
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Those stats are simply put together as people want them to be..

All I know is AA works 100% of the time as long as you work it.. The program never fails just people do..
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I hear that 97.654% of statistics are made up.

Like Inda said, if it is working for you then you are experiencing 100% success.
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Old 11-05-2012, 05:07 PM
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Some intersting notes about AA member activity: Lets Ask Bill W - 33 - What is the success rate of Alcoholics Anonymous?
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Old 11-05-2012, 05:14 PM
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Oh no! Not this again!
AA is the only way.
AA is a cult.
Eat loads of sweets.
Don't substitute alcohol with sweets.
Don't swim on a full stomach.
Doesn't matter if you swim on a full stomach.
Clear the wreckage of your past.
Forget the past.

I don't care what works for others.
I just want for people to realize it's hard and it's worth it.
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Old 11-05-2012, 05:17 PM
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95% of threads that start discussing AA stats get closed.

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Old 11-05-2012, 05:22 PM
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One of the Joe's on page 46 of xa-speakers.org (can't tell ya which one, I've been listening to most on that page--see Alcoholics Anonymous then go to Single Speakers then to page 46* *scroll to bottom to see the page numbers) talks of being an Alcohol Counselor. He's worked while still drinking and he's worked while sober.......just saying.

sounds like it's just another opinion......
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Originally Posted by Dee74 View Post
95% of threads that start discussing AA stats get closed.

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You have an amazing way of putting things into perspective, LOL!
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Old 11-05-2012, 05:55 PM
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Your counselor knows you're in AA and still bashes it? That's a strange method of treatment if you ask me. I'm a firm believer in the "whatever works for you" method of recovery.
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Old 11-05-2012, 06:04 PM
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Maybe I've got it all wrong but this seems to me like "deja vu all over again", as Yogi Berra used to say. Pretty soon we'll have to bring in the elephant and talk about one person feeling his ear, another his trunk, etc.

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Old 11-05-2012, 06:36 PM
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Originally Posted by Dee74 View Post
95% of threads that start discussing AA stats get closed.

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Old 11-05-2012, 07:13 PM
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Yes and also, has it not been written: "Debates over Recovery Methods are not allowed on the Newcomer's Forum."
The important thing, possibly the only thing, is not to drink and drug. How a person chooses to do that is his concern.

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Old 11-05-2012, 07:30 PM
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Originally Posted by wpainterw View Post
Maybe I've got it all wrong but this seems to me like "deja vu all over again", as Yogi Berra used to say. Pretty soon we'll have to bring in the elephant and talk about one person feeling his ear, another his trunk, etc.
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If this elephant story has only been mentioned once before here, it would make this 'deja vu like never before'. Hope this helps.
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As far as I can tell, this parable has been recounted only once in these pages. That would make this 'deja vu like never before'. Hope this helps.
Thanks. Maybe I should put this a different way: "If you are interested in dogma, the best place to go is the American Kennel Club."

To the best of my knowledge this is the first time anyone has suggested this. You may use it deja if you wish.

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Old 11-05-2012, 07:44 PM
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AODA is 'Alcohol and Other Drug Abuse' prevention program from the Wisconsin Department of Public Instruction - Student Services/Prevention and Wellness.

Anyone can do their own research to see what is said about the success rates of any recovery program they might think of. In this particular instance, there is a lot of information that is easily available. Doing your own research and making your own evaluation is a much better idea than asking that question here.
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Old 11-05-2012, 08:51 PM
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Can we not hust get along?
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Old 11-05-2012, 10:34 PM
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Funny thing is that I never knew a counselors that know any other program but AA.
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Old 11-05-2012, 11:33 PM
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I think the statistics are made up by either people who actively detest 12 step fellowships or by people who have no idea about them. Like other people have said it works if you work it. There's loads of statistics out there about people who 'recover' but how do you define 'recover'? 1%, 3% 5%. If you live the program then you arrest your disease,
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