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Old 12-08-2014, 05:57 AM
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Before I do a search for them online do you know of any that are readily online?
Hi

The book that I have read more than once is by Allen Carr and is available on Kindle.

It is amazing,

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Old 12-08-2014, 09:55 AM
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I just read 21st Century Sobriety, by George G, an AA "old timer" who wants to update some of the original AA concepts for a younger generation - including discussion of the most recent scientific research into the causes of alcoholism. He also uses that research and evolutionary psychology to recast the old language of "character defects" in terms of dysfunctional adaptations - which I found to be both enlightening and helpful.

It's a fairly short book, available on Kindle - and I wish the author would have covered more ground - e.g., on the steps from a more modern viewpoint. Some may not find it personally helpful because it is definitely in the AA vein; some AA folks may object to "updating" (and critiquing) anything from the traditional understandings. So, I won't say it's for everyone.

Although the author's stated audience is younger alcoholics, I liked it - and I'm 63.

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Old 12-11-2014, 12:42 PM
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It's early days for me but I really like The Four Agreements. It is very simple yet takes a lot of soul searching, mindfulness and effort. I think of that Mark Twain quote for some reason: “I didn't have time to write a short letter, so I wrote a long one instead.” It's not easy to keep it simple sometimes.
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Old 12-21-2014, 01:38 PM
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Anxiety Book

While this book is not focused on alcohol or substance abuse per se, so many of us suffer from anxiety and panic attacks that I wanted to let everyone know about it:

Hope and Help for Your Nerves by Dr. Claire Weekes
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Old 01-02-2015, 01:44 AM
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seeing as we have rules about commercial links I think it's best to follow Anna's lead & simply provide title and author here

people are quite capable of Googling or whatever if they have the interest

Many of the previous books have helped me - these two books helped me too with various aspects of my recovery...

The Shack by W. Paul Young, Wayne Jacobsen, Brad Cummings
The Easy Way to Stop Drinking by Allen Carr

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The Shack, an incredible book!
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Old 01-05-2015, 02:47 PM
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Mindfulness and the 12 Steps
by Therese Jacobs-Stewart

Buddhism and 12 steps meditation ideology, etc.
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Old 01-05-2015, 03:09 PM
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Updated again, and thanks everybody. Keep the good books coming.
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Old 01-06-2015, 07:46 AM
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Steven Melemis 'I want to change my life- how to overcome anxiety, depression and addiction'.
It is a brilliant book which kind of has a bit of everything in it. It teaches you the art of mind-body relaxation, kind of like mindfulness, alongside a bit of CBT, and also helps you to understand the reasons some of us become addicts.

I can't recommend it highly enough.

I am also reading Kelly Mcgonical's 'The willpower instinct'. I haven't finished it yet, and it may be more relevant to softer addictions (like comfort eating which is why I bought it LOL), but it helps you to understand why we are all so bad at falling at the first temptation hurdle, and how you can get your priorities in check in terms of not giving in.
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Old 01-08-2015, 04:22 PM
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The Shack, an incredible book!
I read the shack a couple of months ago i love that book seriously good
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Old 02-26-2015, 10:32 PM
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A lot of great resources listed here. I'll add Mrs. D is Going Without by Lotta Dann. Blog, book, and interviews on New Zealand TV are all interesting, especially for high functioning middle age mothers.
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Old 03-02-2015, 10:08 AM
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I think I've been sold on the Shack. Everyone seems to have loved it. Gonna pick it up today perhaps!
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Old 03-02-2015, 10:20 AM
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Old 03-06-2015, 11:56 AM
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I read the shack a couple of months ago i love that book seriously good
Just finished The Shack about 3 minutes ago. It was truly amazing.. one of my favourite books ever, I think.
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Old 03-25-2015, 07:12 AM
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The Untethered Soul is mind blowing
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Old 03-29-2015, 10:59 AM
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I agree with you, Chewy, I loved it. It's on our list.
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Old 04-02-2015, 03:31 PM
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Dunno if this has been put out here but I really enjoyed:

The Last Addiction: Own Your Desire, Live Beyond Recovery, Find Lasting Freedom
Sharon Hersh
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Old 05-06-2015, 08:41 AM
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Thanks for the recommendations, I read the Allen Carr Easy way to stop drinking and it made total sense to me. I'm looking forward to some of the others like Cat Daddy and I picked up the Betty Ford book of women's stories at St. Vincent's.
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"The Sober Revolution - women calling time on wine o'clock". This book really helped me in my first week. Very well written and focussed on the various plights of women drinkers, also lots of compassionate info on the why it may have happened, very encouraging about stopping and how much better life can and will be, if you do. I'm still dipping in and out of certain sections to keep myself focussed and motivated.
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Old 06-23-2015, 01:34 PM
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Hello Anna:

I am not sure how to add the Book "Living Sober Sucks, But Living Drunk Sucks More" by Mark A Tuschel. I am not the most computer literate.
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Old 06-23-2015, 01:45 PM
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Updated again today, thanks everybody for your great suggestions!

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