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Old 12-19-2013, 11:46 AM
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Moderation is not an option for me because:

One drink, led to many drinks usually ending in a blackout. The worst thing was waking up unsure of what had happened. Horrible feeling, scary, never ever, want to feel that way again.
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Old 12-19-2013, 01:35 PM
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Moderation is not an option because, honestly, I dont like the taste of alcohol. I never drank for the taste, always to get drunk, and that first drink always tasted awful but after a few you dont notice. I drank for the effect, if it was for the taste I'd buy non alcoholic beer but the idea of that seems pointless
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Old 12-20-2013, 08:54 AM
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Moderation isn't an option for me because I now choose to stop assuming I WANT a drink and, instead, looking at what this will give me. The answer is "Nothing". I will get no benefit whatsoever to drinking one beer, ten beer, a thousand beer. I've already put in my 15 years of being trashed regularly, I've retired from drinking.
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Old 12-20-2013, 08:59 AM
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Originally Posted by EternalQ View Post
Moderation is NOT an option for me, because:
Duh!

Kidding. Because I'm an alcoholic. Even the most beautiful glass of wine in a mesmerizing company would soon-after require dozens and dozens of shots that will have rendered me oblivious and quite sick. {reminding me of the fact I'm an alcoholic indeed}

I guess I don't want to be "reminded" any more...
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Old 12-20-2013, 09:08 AM
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Because marketing and advertising and brainwashing aside, why would we want to put even a small amount of poison into our bodies? A small amount of poison is still poison. And it's still unnatural. We wouldn't want to eat a small amount of glass, either. It might sound drastic, but in my situation it's really not much different.
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Old 12-20-2013, 10:46 AM
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Moderation is not an option for me because drinking in moderation bores me. I admire the person who can be satisfied with a sip of wine at a wine-tasting event. But that's just not how my brain is wired.
I drink to get "drunk"... If i'm not going to get drunk, then I'm just not going to drink.. period.
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Old 01-06-2014, 05:05 PM
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Old 01-06-2014, 05:15 PM
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Old 01-06-2014, 05:22 PM
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Moderation is not an option for me because,
I drank to escape life and drinking nearly killed me
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Old 01-06-2014, 05:28 PM
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Because I've been there and tried that for years. I manipulate myself into thinking I can, but I have proven over and over and over..... I can't drink in moderation. I drink, not for fun, but to escape reality. I'm an alcoholic, and I always will be.
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Old 01-06-2014, 05:33 PM
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because i've been there and tried that for years. I manipulate myself into thinking i can, but i have proven over and over and over..... I can't drink in moderation. I drink, not for fun, but to escape reality. I'm an alcoholic, and i always will be.
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Old 01-06-2014, 06:41 PM
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Old 01-06-2014, 06:55 PM
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Moderation is not an option for me because I've tried that a million times in the past 20 years. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know if it didn't work then it isn't going to work now!
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Old 01-06-2014, 06:58 PM
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Moderation is not an option for me because I don't want a beer or a glass of wine. I want to drink and drink and drink until I pass out.
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Old 02-11-2014, 07:15 PM
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Old 04-19-2014, 11:39 AM
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Moderation is not an option for me
because alcohol wants to kill me.
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Old 04-19-2014, 11:42 AM
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Moderation is not an option for me because

I don't want to be a miserable, binge drinker ever again
If I pick up a drink, that is what happens, I drink till I pass out, over and over
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Old 06-08-2014, 07:36 PM
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Moderation is not an option for me
because never drinking again
and not having to ruminate about my alcohol use
is much less stressful than
trying to moderate drinking
which would just continue my alcohol obsession.
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Old 06-08-2014, 07:43 PM
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I've never been good at moderation,
but I'm getting really good at abstinence.
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