Need help =(
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Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Between Meetings
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I can't help but think that now he does possibly believe that I'm going to stay sober so he has to change is stance. I think he's used my alcoholism as a pinning board for all of my problems...if there's an issue its easier to blame her and her drinking rather than take responsability and deal with them.
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Join Date: Dec 2011
Location: Between Meetings
Posts: 8,997
You have alcohol on both sides of the fence here....You can't really expect anything else....Yeah they have women's only meetings...I recommend those to start for you.....And keep checking here and let us know how you are doing...Surround yourself with support....This is a lot easier when you don't do it alone.
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Join Date: Jan 2012
Posts: 1,180
What do YOU want Hrich?This all seems about your husband. Put yourself first, get sober. If the divorce goes ahead you will surely be entitled to half the assets, plus maintenance. I agree with others,see a lawyer to find out your rights,rather than just waiting for your husband to make all the decisions/call all the shots.good luck
Morning Hrich1222
Just a quick hello to give you my support.
With our without your husband you have to look after youself first, that has to be your priority to look after yourself and get yourself better. Time is a great healer and what's meant to be will be.
We are all here to hold your hand.
Big hugs
Gxx
Just a quick hello to give you my support.
With our without your husband you have to look after youself first, that has to be your priority to look after yourself and get yourself better. Time is a great healer and what's meant to be will be.
We are all here to hold your hand.
Big hugs
Gxx
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Join Date: Jun 2012
Location: Spanaway,wa
Posts: 111
I want to be sober above all. I feel great when I'm sober. I know I can deal with the stress of everything else while I am. Its not all about my husband but he sure is a huge part of my life.
I do know where that meeting location is. Its actually right down the street. I went to an open one there a few weeks ago and felt terribly out of place. Ill try the womans and see!
Thank you all for your support.
I do know where that meeting location is. Its actually right down the street. I went to an open one there a few weeks ago and felt terribly out of place. Ill try the womans and see!
Thank you all for your support.
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