I once used: ______as excuse to drink. Today instead I will: _____
I used to use sad events as an excuse to drink. Even those that happened to others!
Today instead, I had no desire to worsen things by drinking, and instead offered my help to those directly affected.
Today instead, I had no desire to worsen things by drinking, and instead offered my help to those directly affected.
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I once used every excuse to drink it could be happy, sad, angry, anxious, upset, stressed out, you name it, it was a reason to drink. Today I find ways to feel and deal through my feelings and it sucks, but I get far better results than drinking, blacking out and making any situation worse.
I once used my siblings and in laws asking for babysitting, money, food, and whatever else they could pull out of me as an excuse to drink. Now I simply oblige to what I want to at the time and for other times I've learned how to say no.
I once used self-loathing as an excuse to drink. I assumed that if I drank enough to quit caring about my mistakes I would actually forget.
Today instead I will find reasons to enjoy and love myself. Take charge of my life and face my past mistakes.
Today instead I will find reasons to enjoy and love myself. Take charge of my life and face my past mistakes.
I once used loneliness as an excuse to drink.
Today, instead I will let myself feel lonely as often as it occurs, until I decide what to do in order to change it.
If I drank, I would never change it.
This way I will tolerate it, or, I will change it, but I won't pretend I don't mind, or teach myself I can't tolerate it, which are the two outcomes drinking wrought.
Today, instead I will let myself feel lonely as often as it occurs, until I decide what to do in order to change it.
If I drank, I would never change it.
This way I will tolerate it, or, I will change it, but I won't pretend I don't mind, or teach myself I can't tolerate it, which are the two outcomes drinking wrought.
I used to use the pain and trauma of the past as a reason to drink.
Today I am looking at what happened honestly, and objectively, and working on ways of coming to terms with reality so I can move forward in a more well adjusted manner.
Today I am looking at what happened honestly, and objectively, and working on ways of coming to terms with reality so I can move forward in a more well adjusted manner.
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