I don't know who I am without alcohol
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Join Date: Jun 2012
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I hear what you're saying. I was defined as the life of the party just as you are defined by your love of wine. However when I step back I would rather be defined as a good dad, a loving husband, a good friend. I realized I was not normal when I finally admitted I was an addict Life has gotten way better ever since. Best to You on your journey.
Maybe you hiding behind wine because you are afraid that you don't have your own identity? That's what I did. Now that I am no longer drinking, I am finding out that I am a happy and wonderful person without something else defining who I am. My family is happier, my boyfriend is happier, I am a better person! You can still do designing and things without drinking! Don't LET alcohol define you.
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