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Old 07-04-2012, 03:52 PM
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Good evening everyone. My name is Alan I'm 30 and I am from England. I am 7 months sober but I have joined this site as recently I have had those thoughts of "maybe I could have just 1 drink" creeping into my head.

Of course I know full well it will never be just one as once I have one I do not stop until I am unconscious. It is strange how quickly we seem to forget the hell that alcohol puts us through, and that's what I'm here to remind myself of.

Any enough rambling, I'm off to look around the site.

Cheers Alan
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Old 07-04-2012, 03:54 PM
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Hello Alan! Welcome! Congratulations on your 7 months of sobriety! You've got it nailed! Glad you've joined us!
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Old 07-04-2012, 03:58 PM
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Hi Alan, fellow brit here. Congrats on 7 months mate. SR is a godsend.
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Old 07-04-2012, 03:59 PM
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Welcome Alan and well done on 7 months! That's awesome. How'd you do it without SR...? x
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Welcome to SR Alan,we are getting a good crowd in from the UK.
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Old 07-04-2012, 04:03 PM
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Welcome friend! I was just thinking the same thing...
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Old 07-04-2012, 04:06 PM
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Welcome Alan...welcome to SR!!! 7 months is fantastic!!! One drink is not worth throwing that away, because you know it really won't be 1 drink. You've come this far.. no need to look back now.
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Old 07-04-2012, 05:18 PM
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Welcome to our recovery community....

When I first heard...."It's the first drink that makes you drunk"
I thought it was so silly and untrue.
Who were these AA members? Social drinkers?

I knew it would take me more...and more and more...
I stayed around....found recovery and no longer compare but identify.

Congratulations on your sober time....
Glad you joined us.


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Old 07-04-2012, 05:22 PM
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hi alan-welcome!
i just posted about having that same thought! glad we are here for each other
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Old 07-04-2012, 07:03 PM
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Congratulations on 7 months! Don't give it all up now, it keeps getting so much better!!!!!!!

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Old 07-04-2012, 07:06 PM
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Hi Alan! The 'I'll just have one' thing kept me drinking for many years. I was determined I could use willpower to control myself. I almost lost my life proving it was impossible. Apparently I'm one of those with no 'off' switch.

Glad you are here with us. It feels so much better doing this with people who really understand. Congratulations on your 7 months, Alan.
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Old 07-04-2012, 07:35 PM
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Welcome to SR. You'll find lots of support around here. Congrats on the 7 months!
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Old 07-04-2012, 08:09 PM
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Welcome Alan, congrats on the 7 months. Keep strong it's not worth the relapse you've come to far, besides you know that voice you hear is not being honest with you.
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Old 07-04-2012, 08:19 PM
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Welcome good to have ya
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Old 07-05-2012, 02:39 AM
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Hello Alan! Congratulations - that's fantastic. Good for you.

I think SR is a great place for us to be reminded that we will never, ever be able to take that first drink. There's so much knowledge and support here, and it definitely helps to be reminded of what we went through and to never, ever have to do it all again.
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Old 07-05-2012, 02:46 AM
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Thanks for the warm welcome I am not planning on drinking I have tried to quit, then just have the one before. And before I know it I have been drinking every day for 5 months
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Old 07-05-2012, 03:02 AM
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Thanks for the warm welcome I am not planning on drinking I have tried to quit, then just have the one before. And before I know it I have been drinking every day for 5 months
I was talking to an older guy the other day after a meeting...He has 31 years sober. He told me he got to six years sober his first time...And he stopped doing what he was doing and decided it would be OK to have a couple beers at a Christmas party. He went back to AA and he told his wife....That was the worst six months of my life....She told him...You've been drinking for two years....He didn't even know it. They say it's powerful...I guess so.
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Welcome and congratulations on seven months!
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