Originally Posted by SASA

I know it sounds funny what I will say, love is the answer.
Love is patient, love is kind.
It does not envy, it does not boast,
it is not proud.
It is not rude, it is not self-seeking,
it is not easily angered,
it keeps no record of wrongs.
Love does not delight in evil
but rejoices with the truth.
It always protects, always trusts,
always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.

So if you really loved him, you would want him to be happy and if this means being without you that should be okay too. True basic love is pure. Everybody has problems and acts due to many different reasons, we may never undertsand them. We can remove ourselfs from the environment and just forgive and be thankful for the lessons and times we learnd and spent togehter.