On day 5 of the bender
Don't be embarassed. An alcoholic seeking help is something to be proud of. My doctor was very supportive of me. You'll be surprised as well at how happy people are that your working at bettering yourself and fighting this demon.
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I wouldn't worry about being embarrassed...I'd be worrying about your health. What about this friend that's coming over...Can he help you?...Maybe take you to a clinic or something. I just don't think it's a great idea cutting off like that on your own...Especially if you are worried about seisures...Just the anxiety of that alone can cause you problems. You get me?
Welcome drunkandalone -
You're reaching out today, which is a huge first step.... We all know what it's like to get caught in the the vicious cycle, where it seems like all we need is "just one more" to feel better. I agree that getting help to detox is the best thing you can do now and seeing a doctor would at least give you some official paper work to back up your taking time off work (they can probably write up a separate work excuse without referencing the alcohol).
It's hard to deal with the breakup of a relationship, but you're hurting the person who most deserves your love and attention (you). We're here to support you - believe me, you're not alone......:ghug3
You're reaching out today, which is a huge first step.... We all know what it's like to get caught in the the vicious cycle, where it seems like all we need is "just one more" to feel better. I agree that getting help to detox is the best thing you can do now and seeing a doctor would at least give you some official paper work to back up your taking time off work (they can probably write up a separate work excuse without referencing the alcohol).
It's hard to deal with the breakup of a relationship, but you're hurting the person who most deserves your love and attention (you). We're here to support you - believe me, you're not alone......:ghug3
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Thanks artsoul, all of you are giving me valuable advice. I am going to stop drinking and poor the rest of this Franzia Wine in the toilet and call the doctors office right now. I do need official documentation for taking time off work.
Just be careful. I know pouring out the wine and beer is a good first step but please call your doctor first. I don't know your history or can really give medical advice but cold turkey is tough on the body. At least talk to the nurse in your doctors office if you cannot get in right away. It was hard when I did it but my doctor was very supportive. Keep posting here. Let us know how you are doing even if it is not good news. The people here have heard it all. All my prayers.
Drunkandalone,
I know it seems bad right now, but it's not worth it. Your ex is not worth hurting yourself over. It's good you are calling a doctor. Drinking a case a day over the past few days is a lot and you might need help detoxing.
I know it seems bad right now, but it's not worth it. Your ex is not worth hurting yourself over. It's good you are calling a doctor. Drinking a case a day over the past few days is a lot and you might need help detoxing.
Awesome for getting rid of the wine! It's a very empowering experience. I still remember pouring out my vodka. I don't think i'll ever forget. Congrats and congrats for making the first steps towards changing your life. It's so much better on this side of the fence.
I am glad to hear that you got rid of the booze but I'm still worried for your health. Detox can be extremely hard on our bodies. The withdrawal symptoms often drive people back to the bottle for some kind of relief. Medical support is essential - please don't write that off. It embarrasses US, but THEY see it all the time. They know how to help. So please get that support behind you while you detox. It will make things go much, much smoother. Please?
What's stopping you from quitting now? You're posting here so obviously you have some desire to quit. Honestly posting here in the middle of a bender is a bit disrespectful to those on the sober path. How about you quit the pity party now, pour out the last of the drink and get back on the wagon today.
Glad to have you with us. You have received great advice. Keep posting.
Try not to worry so much about the ex... I know, I know, easier said than done. If you're a reader, check out a book called "It's called a break up because it's broken..." It has some sound advice that is written in a pretty funny way. The best part? It's written by someone who has been in recovery for over 10 years and having the problem with your ex AND the alcohol -- it's pretty insightful for both.
This too shall pass, promise.
Drunkandalone. welcome and I wish you the best with whatever you choose. Now I am sober- when I look back I can see that when I was drinking regularly my emotions were unstable and I was very sensitive to stress. Now I am sober stress doesn't get to me nearly as much, I am far more resilient.
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