Originally Posted by jeffeypoo

Thanks everyone. I am looking into secular programs, I realize AA has helped many but I would be so opposed to it and so paranoid about the dogma that it would be more trouble to me than it is worth. Even "spiritual" to me implies that I am not in full control of my actions, which if that is the case I don't see much point in living.

So far as the expungement process I've already looked into that and it is not an option in NC. You can file forms after a few years to get a pardon from the governor, but the dwi still remains on your record so I don't really see much point in pursuing that.

Guess I will just have to stay clean and sober and hope that maybe when I go to court my officer will have transferred or isn't present or some other technicality allows me to get out of it (legal wise, I realize I have work to do myself for the over drinking).

Has anyone tried the moderation management process? I would post the link but since I'm new it won't allow me. It seems much more logical and science based to me.