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Old 07-12-2012, 06:07 AM
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I just stopped as well.

Sometimes something happens which makes your mind up for you. On occasions like this people just stop. They may still relapse later, but it looks like that will not happen with DD. As for me its early days.

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Old 07-12-2012, 06:11 AM
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Well done Dark Days!
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Old 07-12-2012, 06:34 AM
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I love this guy! DD you are soberliciously awesome. Thanks for being you! Love and hugs, T
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Old 07-12-2012, 03:01 PM
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Old 07-12-2012, 03:31 PM
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Yes quit by myself with the help of my January freinds and Dee and SR Plus raitional recovery with a bit of allan Carr .
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Old 07-12-2012, 03:44 PM
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man you rock! you are a strong man and will never give up :-) What a nice improvement!
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Old 07-12-2012, 03:52 PM
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You're post touched me. I just recently started out on my own path. I was going to bed drunk and always feared what would happen to my baby girl (18 months old now) if we needed to get to the hospital during the night when I would not be able to drive. It disgusts me looking back that I still knowingly got drunk almost every night and hit the bed just hoping that I wouldn't be called on to drive a vehicle. We're all here for you and as you can see there are alot of good people here to lean on!
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Old 07-12-2012, 03:56 PM
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That is wonderful news, DarkDays. What an accomplishment.
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Old 07-12-2012, 04:35 PM
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Thank you for the inspiring story, DarkDays. Awesome really!
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Old 07-12-2012, 04:47 PM
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I remember your original post DD. Yes, it is possible to quit on your own, but it sometimes takes a 'nudge' or a 'swift kick up the butt' to change your mindset. I can imagine how awful that walk to hospital must have been. My 30 days in hospital were enough for me to stay off it. Not saying that its been easy, as you know, but not wanting to go back to hospital and SR have been hugely important for my recovery. Here's to many many more days, weeks, months, years! x
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Old 07-12-2012, 05:55 PM
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Thank you DD for your story. You give me that much more encouragement to build my resolve to never drink again. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
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Old 07-12-2012, 05:58 PM
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DD you our sooo awesome!!! Congrats on your 6 months! my friend!
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Old 07-12-2012, 06:19 PM
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oops meant "you are soo awesome"...sorry DD
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Old 07-12-2012, 07:06 PM
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Congratulations! I too decided that I'm not drinking that poison again. It's been working 19 months for me. Isn't wonderful to know that you can get in your car and go anywhere, at anytime of the day or night and not worry about drunk driving. And to know if you family needs you, you will be there sober and ready to deal with the issue.

Wishing you the best.
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Old 07-12-2012, 11:41 PM
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Congrts Dark days.I remember you from January.
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Old 10-12-2012, 01:39 PM
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Its Me attention seeking as normal..

9 months since that lonely walk back from hospital and 9 months sober.

Still hard to believe, but its this site and the inspirational people here that have been the real help for me, thank you all !

Not going prattle on about how things are better or how magical life is, because these last 9 months have been rocky/hard/easy only now am I starting to stabilise.

But things do get better albeit slowly.

No sleep is magical, cannot deny that.

Err Also lost 2 stone.

Errr Fatter Wallet .

Freedom to what I want when I want.


Plus sober is so frigging cool.

Back wheN i get to 12 months

Thanks
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Old 10-12-2012, 02:20 PM
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Well done on 9 months DarkDays! Inspiring stuff x
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Old 10-12-2012, 02:39 PM
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congratulations DD

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Old 10-12-2012, 04:55 PM
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Wonderful news DD! We knew all along you could do it. Thanks for letting us know.

You're right - sober is cool. Congrats on your 9 months!
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Old 10-12-2012, 05:44 PM
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You are so cool Dark Days!

A total inspiration mate :day2
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