They don't understand
 

Just girl I know wanted to go out with me but I feel like I'm not stable enough to date anyone now. She has 2 kids and I don't think it's fair on her and her kids for me to slip when I start drinking. When I start, I can't stop. Take days to go get myself to stop drinking. I told her this but she think it's someone I can change.

I think you need to put some time and effort into yourself and your recovery right now act10n.

I think thats the wise choice for sure.

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