Day 1, need lots if help
Day 1, need lots if help
Hi I went 3 years without a drink and now I seem to not be able to put it down. I don't get drunk I just get a buzz and need to quit it all together. The reason I only get a buzz is because I only buy a half pint of vodka. I would drink what ever I had. I am a single mom with 2 wonderful boys their dad passed away several years back. I've had 2 dui's already,and am just SCARED TO DEATH OF GETTING another one,, I also have a wonderful job that I want to keep. If i get another dui i loose job house and most likely my boys. Im really scared. Ive been reading this forum all night and descided to join it.
How do you just quit?? I really need help.
DESPRETE
How do you just quit?? I really need help.
DESPRETE
Hello KLG. Welcome to SR!
I've had trouble not being able to put it down also. I went to AA and found help there. I've also found an incredible amount of help here.
Do you have any alcohol in the house now? If so get rid of it and let's see if we can make it through the day together sober.
I've had trouble not being able to put it down also. I went to AA and found help there. I've also found an incredible amount of help here.
Do you have any alcohol in the house now? If so get rid of it and let's see if we can make it through the day together sober.
tinman no i dont have any alchol in the house right now,, if I did i would drink it. I am desperate I'm all my boys have its just me. I hate the way alcohol make me feel but still cant stop drinking it,,
Hi Klg
My sons father was killed..prior to that I was in an alcoholic plummet.. when he died I crashed.. during that my then teenage son walked out while I was drinking and said 'Dad would be do proud of who u are now' .. that sent me ballistic...
Ive noticed this site has a grief forum.. Id check that .. grief counselling helped both my son and I... but basically alcohol.. didnt help my own grief..It blocked it if anything...it caused me not to feel at a time I really needed to...
Being a single mum is doable...being a sober single mum.. is doable and awesome..its one of my biggest fears.. that ill stuff it up.. but with a drink in my hand and mind.. for me Ive stuffed it anyway...
My sons father was killed..prior to that I was in an alcoholic plummet.. when he died I crashed.. during that my then teenage son walked out while I was drinking and said 'Dad would be do proud of who u are now' .. that sent me ballistic...
Ive noticed this site has a grief forum.. Id check that .. grief counselling helped both my son and I... but basically alcohol.. didnt help my own grief..It blocked it if anything...it caused me not to feel at a time I really needed to...
Being a single mum is doable...being a sober single mum.. is doable and awesome..its one of my biggest fears.. that ill stuff it up.. but with a drink in my hand and mind.. for me Ive stuffed it anyway...
Yeah, when we run away from our feelings, we end up having to face them again eventually, if we want to get sober.
You have a lot to stay sober for. As for how you do it - don't buy the alcohol today. Drive home a different way so you avoid the store. Do something with your boys in the evening to take your mind off drinking for a little while. Do whatever it takes.
You have a lot to stay sober for. As for how you do it - don't buy the alcohol today. Drive home a different way so you avoid the store. Do something with your boys in the evening to take your mind off drinking for a little while. Do whatever it takes.
klg= I know how you feel. I am a single mother of 2 awesome kids and I have a wonderful job that I love.
I know I can lose it all because of alcohol.
That fear is what is making me want to change.
The fear that I am losing my kids' respect.
The fear of a DUI.
But even being terrified of these things, I still find myself drinking. It sucks, but I went 5 straight days last week without a drink and I felt great. Now I want to be sober, not for the fear of what can happen but for the hope to finally feel good and happy and healthy. I need to learn to refocus my bad thoughts and habits into good happy thoughts and habits as an example for my kids.
I want to feel good again.
Take care and try to stay strong. Remember 1 day at a time and even 1 hour at a time... 1 minute at time if you have to. You will feel so proud of yourself tomorrow morning. Trust me.
I know I can lose it all because of alcohol.
That fear is what is making me want to change.
The fear that I am losing my kids' respect.
The fear of a DUI.
But even being terrified of these things, I still find myself drinking. It sucks, but I went 5 straight days last week without a drink and I felt great. Now I want to be sober, not for the fear of what can happen but for the hope to finally feel good and happy and healthy. I need to learn to refocus my bad thoughts and habits into good happy thoughts and habits as an example for my kids.
I want to feel good again.
Take care and try to stay strong. Remember 1 day at a time and even 1 hour at a time... 1 minute at time if you have to. You will feel so proud of yourself tomorrow morning. Trust me.
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welcome to SR klg,
I am just on a "Day 1" myself and am pretty down about it... I feel right now that I want to weekend to be here already because the emotions of regret and anger and fear are usually strong enough for me to resist alcohol for a few days.
I wish you the best and hope that we can both report a successful day 1 tomorrow and then move on to day 2!!
I am just on a "Day 1" myself and am pretty down about it... I feel right now that I want to weekend to be here already because the emotions of regret and anger and fear are usually strong enough for me to resist alcohol for a few days.
I wish you the best and hope that we can both report a successful day 1 tomorrow and then move on to day 2!!
Welcome klg
Support was what made the difference for me - whether it's here, or your Dr, or a recovery group like AA or SMART etc. or counselling, or some form of inpateient or outpatient rehab - there's a lot of help around. Do reach out for it.
You'll find a lot of support here
And please don't drive drunk. There are even worse things that can happen than DUIs.
D
Support was what made the difference for me - whether it's here, or your Dr, or a recovery group like AA or SMART etc. or counselling, or some form of inpateient or outpatient rehab - there's a lot of help around. Do reach out for it.
You'll find a lot of support here
And please don't drive drunk. There are even worse things that can happen than DUIs.
D
my boys are 11 and 13. I have a wonderful life with my boys I have a great job, a new house, yet I have the craving thing going on,,, I've talked to my boys about it and they know I am not to go to the liquar store any more, or have any drinks when we are out to dinner. I have great kids and hopefully together we can get through this..
welcome to SR klg,
I am just on a "Day 1" myself and am pretty down about it... I feel right now that I want to weekend to be here already because the emotions of regret and anger and fear are usually strong enough for me to resist alcohol for a few days.
I wish you the best and hope that we can both report a successful day 1 tomorrow and then move on to day 2!!
I am just on a "Day 1" myself and am pretty down about it... I feel right now that I want to weekend to be here already because the emotions of regret and anger and fear are usually strong enough for me to resist alcohol for a few days.
I wish you the best and hope that we can both report a successful day 1 tomorrow and then move on to day 2!!
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