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Hi all, 15 years playing with fire, time to stop.

Old 05-28-2011, 07:15 PM
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Hi all, 15 years playing with fire, time to stop.

I'm an alcoholic and I finally need to say it, I can't believe I'm admitting it, I never thought I would. I always used to think that the people who got sober were foolish and that I was somehow above that. I'm not sure how many times being pulled over by the police for drinking and driving, smoking a joint, feeling like a fool it was going to take. My guess it its never going to convince me I had a problem, even when my best friends had an intervention and suggested I enter treatment, I laughed it off cause "they didn't get me" and found new friends. I have two beautiful daughters and a wife that never stops forgiving but three weeks ago I fell off my chair at lunch. I had had way too much to drink by noon (a quart of vodka and a bottle of wine) and had to call in sick from work and go up to my room and cry. As much as I thought sober folks were just too weak to quit I've seen how my addiction has gotten worse and worse every year. Sometimes I can quit drinking for a few days but then I start taking pills and smoking marijuana. Then I miss the drink too much and wind up on all three before I pat myself on the back for just being an alcoholic again. I still feel like I'm the only one with this much substance and gambling abuse, I've also lost 20,000 betting on sports and more than that at casinos, usually while inebriated somehow, that is lucky enough to have a wife that basically looks the other way. I'm going to goto AA, GA, and take a fearless moral inventory starting today. I wanted a running start so i've been doing nothing but exercising, eating ice cream, and swimming in freezing cold water since that day. After drinking 12 units minimum every day for 15 years my last drink (other than communion wine, does anyone avoid this?) was on Thursday, May 12, it was a breakfast beer. But I have to go back to work and my crazy routine to hide my anxiety isn't going to last another day. I smelled some empties in the basement today and nearly puked. I probably should have been under medical supervision I had severe night sweats and constant shaking for about a week now I just have a headache and feel like i ate a ball of poison in my guts and lungs all the time. I hope this goes away.
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Old 05-28-2011, 07:53 PM
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Welcome, you will get a lot of support here.

(And I avoid communion wine, most people in my church do).
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Old 05-28-2011, 09:11 PM
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Old 05-28-2011, 09:31 PM
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Hi Irish,

I thought I was better than everyone else when I was drinking too - it's only after I stopped I realised how stupid I was.

I'm glad you're reaching out both at AA and here.

I think the communion wine thing is a very personal decision.

I know guys who take it because they genuinely believe in the Catholic doctrine of transubstantiation (the bread and wine actually become Christs body and blood)...but if you're not sure, I'd reckon it's probably best to stick to the Host until you make a decision down the track.

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Old 05-28-2011, 09:34 PM
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Sorry you have had such a rough start. Hope it starts to get easier!!
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Old 05-29-2011, 03:42 PM
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Welcome, and congratulations on taking steps in the right direction.
Stopping can be done, and it sounds like you're off to a good start. Keep it up!
It only gets better.

Best to you.
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Old 05-29-2011, 04:01 PM
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It's a really great feeling when that lightbulb switches on in your head. I experienced something similar before I joined this site. Just knowing that we can't go on like that forever, and we're missing out on life by being intoxicated all the time is no fun at all. I'm really proud of you for realising this.

The gambling I'm not sure I can help you with. I guess it's another way to escape reality when times get tough. It's way too risky for my liking, I hate the idea of machines eating my hard earned money, or placing a bet and losing all my money even though I was sure that I was going to win. You might win once or twice but overall it's a huge money drain.

Anyway I'm rambling, just want to say you're doing a great job, and with determination, a loving family and support here any time you need it, you can overcome these addictions.
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Old 05-29-2011, 04:11 PM
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Irish,
Welcome to SR,

Getting sober last year really helped me with the gambling obsession. it was the Markets for me , and took some years to actually figure out what I was doing was definitely not "investing"

Staying focused on my sobriety helped clarify a lot of things going on (that I was just blind to ) with the damn gambling.

Glad the withdrawals have eased. Hang in there, ....it does get better. As in EVERYTHING
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