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Old 04-14-2011, 04:53 PM
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Can I continue doing my steps without a sponsor?
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Old 04-14-2011, 05:28 PM
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the 12 steps

Is not something I really want to do. It just that I am unable to go to any meetings for over 3 years now.I started the steps my first year of sobriety I got to step 3 started on the 4 but had to movd. Now I been sobers for almost four years now but I want to do my steps and have some type of support that's why I looked into this website.
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Thanks I feel much better. I just feel so lost sometimes and I am very afraid of going out there again.only we understand one another.
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If I don't have a sponsor and want to continue with my steps is this possible?
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I'm not an AA person, Mld, but others will be along who can offer you advice.
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good that you are looking to move forward,

going it alone is dangerous,

as our minds tend to go in the direction that suits us.

if you cant get to meetings,

there is online sponsorship, phone sponsorship, and email sponsorship.

the one given, honesty, and trust

do hope you can get to face to face meetings,

find a good sponsor,

as that is a most wonderful relationship to have
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Old 04-14-2011, 06:22 PM
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Can I continue doing my steps without a sponsor?
Yes.

See this thread from last week:

Do you need a sponsor in AA?
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Old 04-14-2011, 06:29 PM
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I think a sponsor would be much needed to go thru the steps with
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Old 04-14-2011, 07:04 PM
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Hi, not an AA person myself, but there is plenty of AA wisdom here on these boards.

I did want to welcome you to SR. It is a great place for support, wisdom and helping each other.

We do have a forum specifically for alcoholism and 12-step recovery Alcoholism-12 Step Support - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information you may find it helpful to search and post there. Take care.
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Thank you everyone for your great advice.......
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Old 04-14-2011, 08:05 PM
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I have an on-line sponsor through Lamplighters...you can find them with a google search.
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Old 04-14-2011, 09:49 PM
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I think it's great that you're reaching out for some feedback.

While the directions for the steps are in the Big Book of AA, I believe it's hard to do without a sponsor or teacher who's had an experience with the work. I can't say it's impossible, but I don't know many people who've done the work without a sponsor. A lot of questions come up-- and certain directions, particularly around the 4th step, require some examples, context, etc.

Are you physically unable to go to meetings?
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