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Old 01-31-2011, 05:32 PM
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Well, I Have Finally Done it......

after many, many years of alcohol abuse, I have decided to quit altogether. Just sick and tired of being sick and tired, as it is starting to affect me both physically and mentally. Friendships and relationships are beginning to suffer, and it just isn't worth losing everything over. I have quite a bit of anxiety over the decision, but totally feel it is the right decision to make. I have never really gone "public" with anything like this before.

Here's to January 31, 2011 as the beginning of the rest of my life!
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Old 01-31-2011, 05:35 PM
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Congratulations on taking your first step!

Welcome to SR! You will find a lot of support here. Most of us have been where you are, so we understand what that decision you have made really means. It won't always be easy, but it will most definitely be worth it.

Take some time to read the stickies at the top of this forum and read the posts from other people who are working one day at a time to live a sober life. Again, welcome to SR...we are here to support you!
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Old 01-31-2011, 05:36 PM
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Welcome to SR. You'll find a lot of support here.
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Old 01-31-2011, 05:39 PM
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Welcome!

It's great that you have decided to live a sober life.
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Old 01-31-2011, 05:39 PM
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Thanks a bunch guys.....
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Old 01-31-2011, 05:44 PM
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(((BGS))) welcome to SR, and here's to day 1

SR's been a huge part of my recovery. It was nice to know there were people who had gone through, or were going through, similar stuff.

BTW..LOVE your avatar!

Hugs and prayers,

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Old 01-31-2011, 05:46 PM
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Welcome! You'll find a ton of support here. Keep coming back. Check out this link, it explains the craving we alcoholic go through...

The Phenomenon of Craving
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Old 01-31-2011, 05:49 PM
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Old 01-31-2011, 05:53 PM
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Originally Posted by Impurrfect View Post
(((BGS))) welcome to SR, and here's to day 1

SR's been a huge part of my recovery. It was nice to know there were people who had gone through, or were going through, similar stuff.

BTW..LOVE your avatar!

Hugs and prayers,

Amy
Thank you Amy, I have 2 adult cats (Mandy and Macy), and a calico kitten (Roxanne)

This place seems wonderful, I took a chance googling it, as I post on a lot of sports message boards and love the forums.

I know there is no leeway in my decision to stop completely, so I think posting here will make the transition easier......
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Old 01-31-2011, 05:55 PM
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Welcome BSC to SR and the first day of your journey

Looking forward to reading your update posts. It won't be easy, but then anything worthwhile having very rarely is.

Though no-one can go back and make a new start,
any-one can start from today and make a new ending.
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Old 01-31-2011, 07:56 PM
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Welcome BGS - I love your avatar, too! I have a Ragdoll breed cat that I dearly love.....

It's scary to think about quitting for good and feels so strange at first, but hang in there because it gets better each day. If you take it one day at a time only, it's not so overwhelming.

Posting and reading here definitely helps me stay sober. Just acknowledging it is a huge step in the right direction.

Be careful with detox..... (see a doctor if you think you might have problems.)
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Welcome to SR! I came to this site a couple hours after I decided I'd had enough, and I can't tell you much it helped reading about everyone's experiences. I hope it's as valuable to you.
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Old 01-31-2011, 10:39 PM
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Thanks for joining with us....we do understand and we
are here to support your wise decision...
Many of us are winning over alcohol.

Welcome to our recovery community....
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Old 02-01-2011, 02:09 AM
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Good decision. Kind of a late NYE resolution?
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Old 02-01-2011, 06:45 AM
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well, day 2 is off to a better start than day. Feeling a little bit better both physically and mentally, at least enough to go to my office today. Today will be a struggle, but I am up for it.....

Thanks again for all the well wishes
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Old 02-01-2011, 08:16 AM
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If I can do it, so can you...

I hope you got some sleep last night. For me, night 3 was a lot better than night 2.
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Old 02-02-2011, 07:22 PM
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Day 3 and almost back to normal now. I think the withhdrawl has scared me straight.....
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